Revanchist
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Today I had a thought, what if I directly and openly told people when I liked something about them. Would that be considered rude? I mean yeah okay there are lines where it's just ridiculous however what if I clearly see someone that has worked on something like, I don't know a hair style or if I see someone with unique piece of clothing on... would it be awkward to say
"Hey...I think that's really cool" or " I like your etc.etc."
Surely to me it would seem because I am the one who's saying it and expecting a person to act awkward but what would you do if someone randomely said you had something cool on, or that you looked good etc.
I was traveling with my mother in another country and we were on our way home and we decided to sit down for some coffee and ice cream. And the woman that was serving us was staring at my right leg for a few seconds. I had zippers on that leg of the jeans, like six zippers divided up to my thigh. They could be unzipped and i figured it would be unique to have the zippers there. So she was like, hey that's really cool, I really like it. I was really happy that someone noticed and openly said something about something that I personally decided to do with a piece of clothing. Surely yeah i gave it to the tailor but i had the idea for it.
What do you think, would being randomely nice make the strangers think about doing the same thing? Because this woman has said this compliment to me and ever since I've been thinking about doing the same thing and openly telling people HEY:....i like your haircut. or...HEY....those are some cool glasses.
Thoughts? Have you ever recieved a random compliment or gave one?
"Hey...I think that's really cool" or " I like your etc.etc."
Surely to me it would seem because I am the one who's saying it and expecting a person to act awkward but what would you do if someone randomely said you had something cool on, or that you looked good etc.
I was traveling with my mother in another country and we were on our way home and we decided to sit down for some coffee and ice cream. And the woman that was serving us was staring at my right leg for a few seconds. I had zippers on that leg of the jeans, like six zippers divided up to my thigh. They could be unzipped and i figured it would be unique to have the zippers there. So she was like, hey that's really cool, I really like it. I was really happy that someone noticed and openly said something about something that I personally decided to do with a piece of clothing. Surely yeah i gave it to the tailor but i had the idea for it.
What do you think, would being randomely nice make the strangers think about doing the same thing? Because this woman has said this compliment to me and ever since I've been thinking about doing the same thing and openly telling people HEY:....i like your haircut. or...HEY....those are some cool glasses.
Thoughts? Have you ever recieved a random compliment or gave one?