brickinthewall
Well-known member
Been a while since I've posted here... so here I go..
I actually can't complain too much, had an amazing couple of weeks, met a girl that actually seemed interested in me (for the first time ever in my life).
We've been sort of going out for almost a month now, but nothing really extraordinary happened so far. The one thing that really grinds my gears though is that whenever we aren't together she seems incredibly passive. She's the kind of person that almost never answers the phone on the first try (in general not just with me) and this really ticks me off , I hate it when people do this.
Often we would make plans to go out, she says she would call after her classes are over and she doesn't...then I call her and she's like "wanna go out?". When we are together she really seems to be having a good time, we've spent quite a few nights out until late laughing and having fun (singing mostly since she has an amazing voice and I play guitar). Whenever we go our separate ways she looks at me with big eyes and says "What are you doing tomorrow? Want to hang out?" and then she would never call.
I know I'm the one who is supposed to have initiative but really ? Every single time? This is really what baffles me , because we've always had an amazing time and she would always hug me after I'd walk her home and the next day she would be very passive.
And another thing...would this be the time to take things to another level? I think that I should tell her how I feel because I've really started to like her a lot and I wouldn't want the moment to just fly by. I would rather just tell her and take her reaction head on , good or bad it would still be better than living with the thought that I didn't even try.
Rant over , might write more later on , thanks for reading!
I actually can't complain too much, had an amazing couple of weeks, met a girl that actually seemed interested in me (for the first time ever in my life).
We've been sort of going out for almost a month now, but nothing really extraordinary happened so far. The one thing that really grinds my gears though is that whenever we aren't together she seems incredibly passive. She's the kind of person that almost never answers the phone on the first try (in general not just with me) and this really ticks me off , I hate it when people do this.
Often we would make plans to go out, she says she would call after her classes are over and she doesn't...then I call her and she's like "wanna go out?". When we are together she really seems to be having a good time, we've spent quite a few nights out until late laughing and having fun (singing mostly since she has an amazing voice and I play guitar). Whenever we go our separate ways she looks at me with big eyes and says "What are you doing tomorrow? Want to hang out?" and then she would never call.
I know I'm the one who is supposed to have initiative but really ? Every single time? This is really what baffles me , because we've always had an amazing time and she would always hug me after I'd walk her home and the next day she would be very passive.
And another thing...would this be the time to take things to another level? I think that I should tell her how I feel because I've really started to like her a lot and I wouldn't want the moment to just fly by. I would rather just tell her and take her reaction head on , good or bad it would still be better than living with the thought that I didn't even try.
Rant over , might write more later on , thanks for reading!