TheSkaFish
Jedi Guardian
I asked this question earlier in the "Questions for the Women" thread, but I just thought I'd open it up to anyone. I'm wondering if when a woman decides you are not relationship material, is it forever, or is it just assuming that you will never change? The questions are:
- Could you change your mind about someone you rejected in the past? Have you ever changed your mind about someone you rejected before?
- What would it take for you to consider giving them another chance? Is there any way you could see them as a different, more attractive person?
- Or, on the other side - have any of you successfully influenced another to consider you after they rejected you earlier? If so, what did you do?
A lot of people say that women's minds are made up, they are set in stone. But is that really true, or is it just that most guys, most people in general have a hard time changing enough to convince someone to see them as a new person?
PS - I'm not in any way advocating being pushy here. It's common knowledge that that does not work. Nor am I looking to open up a new round of gender bashing here. I'm just wondering if anything can ever change a woman's impression of a guy if she turns you down once, even if you sincerely become someone new.
- Could you change your mind about someone you rejected in the past? Have you ever changed your mind about someone you rejected before?
- What would it take for you to consider giving them another chance? Is there any way you could see them as a different, more attractive person?
- Or, on the other side - have any of you successfully influenced another to consider you after they rejected you earlier? If so, what did you do?
A lot of people say that women's minds are made up, they are set in stone. But is that really true, or is it just that most guys, most people in general have a hard time changing enough to convince someone to see them as a new person?
PS - I'm not in any way advocating being pushy here. It's common knowledge that that does not work. Nor am I looking to open up a new round of gender bashing here. I'm just wondering if anything can ever change a woman's impression of a guy if she turns you down once, even if you sincerely become someone new.