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Rosebolt
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It's been a lot more often than once that i've heard people say something along the lines of: "I don't feel part of this community." "I feel like i'm being ignored." "I wish i'd be popular."
Things like that.
Now, i know that groups and cliques are part of any human community. I'm not trying to stop, hinder, undermine, or halt that in any way. However i do feel that it is not right to have alot of people feeling ignored or pushed to the sidelines on a forum of this nature. Yes, i also know it's not necessarily true that one is being ignored or pushed away, notice how all the examples have the word "feel" in them. Feelings don't come out of nowhere.
I've been in the same boat. A year ago, on my previous account of the same name, i also felt left out often, even though i was one of the more popular people on this forum back then. It was the reason i left it back then. I don't want other people on here to feel that way.
I want to speak to the people who feel they can relate to this with thread ideas that also actively invites them, while trying to not exclude the people who don't feel that way. I just want to do my part in making this forum a sanctuary for everyone.
Of course, i'm not the community, i'm not the forum. I can't do this alone (although that won't stop me from trying.) I need help from others who agree with me. What i want in this thread, is for people who feel this way, to tell their part, if they so desire, for people who have ideas to make this happen, to share them, and, not at all unimportant, people who disagree with me, to give me feedback on what i'm doing wrong, or why it isn't right/won't work etc. Thank you in advance.
Are you with me?
Things like that.
Now, i know that groups and cliques are part of any human community. I'm not trying to stop, hinder, undermine, or halt that in any way. However i do feel that it is not right to have alot of people feeling ignored or pushed to the sidelines on a forum of this nature. Yes, i also know it's not necessarily true that one is being ignored or pushed away, notice how all the examples have the word "feel" in them. Feelings don't come out of nowhere.
I've been in the same boat. A year ago, on my previous account of the same name, i also felt left out often, even though i was one of the more popular people on this forum back then. It was the reason i left it back then. I don't want other people on here to feel that way.
I want to speak to the people who feel they can relate to this with thread ideas that also actively invites them, while trying to not exclude the people who don't feel that way. I just want to do my part in making this forum a sanctuary for everyone.
Of course, i'm not the community, i'm not the forum. I can't do this alone (although that won't stop me from trying.) I need help from others who agree with me. What i want in this thread, is for people who feel this way, to tell their part, if they so desire, for people who have ideas to make this happen, to share them, and, not at all unimportant, people who disagree with me, to give me feedback on what i'm doing wrong, or why it isn't right/won't work etc. Thank you in advance.
Are you with me?