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How important are looks, to you ?
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Not at all ? That's great ! Then why not go drag that stinky little troll out from under the railroad bridge ? He / she might like a date ? Wink LOL JK

Okay.... now, in all seriousness....

I'll be the first to say, looks are VERY important to me.
However, my tastes are SO different than nearly any of my friends and acquaintances. In fact, I've even gotten to a point where I see a lot of girls and think, Hmmm.... She's "typical pretty"... probably gets lots of attention. But not a girl I'd want to be with, even if I could. {like blonde hair, blue eyes, big breasts.... ehhhh. That's cool. You can have her}

Next, I see some skinny little Mexican girl... flat chested like a board, maybe with jacked up teeth.... and I think to myself, "She is thin, and Mexican, and I'd rather my chest be bigger than hers anyway" Smile LOL
I could totally kick it with that skinny, somewhat homely little thing Wink

For me the whole "opposites attract" thing is SO very true, as well. Being totally white, I rarely see white girls that I'd want to be with.
Far and above all else, I prefer Latin women. Don't even care what exact country... just Latin. But Black, Asian, Indian, whatever. Their is not a race I would not consider a relationship with, but my own is somewhere down there with all other races, aside from Latin.

Being an obese, out of shape pig for the first 45 of my 50 years, and hating myself because of it, I strongly prefer a thin, fit woman, now.
But even here, I think I could make exceptions... maybe... and then hopefully that wouldn't cause problems later ?

A really tall girl might freak me out. I'm thinking 5ft, to 5'6", 100-130lbs ?

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I know their are people who really don't care about looks.... and these are probably the same people who have blank walls in their homes.... who will flip through a photo album, not even slowing down enough to take in the full beauty of even one beautiful photo.

It's quite obvious that some people are simply not stimulated by vision, the way that many other people are (almost always artistically inclined).

So again, how important are looks to you ?
Do you think you prefer "typically pretty woman / handsome men" ?
If not, what do you think you like, that most people would pay no attention to, or not like at all ?

edit: These advertisement popups, for "Asian women seeking love" crack me up Smile Yea ! I'm sure that hawt little Asian model wants to be with my ugly, old, bald headed self ! Smile Got one with HSV 2 ? Send her on over ! Maybe she love me long time ! Smile LOL I wonder how much one of those would cost ? Too bad I'm a broke ass, too !

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#2
Wow, this post made me feel a bit uncomfortable.
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#3
(06-02-2014, 07:16 PM)Littlesecret Wrote: Wow, this post made me feel a bit uncomfortable.

Wow. That's a nice first response, on a new forum.

Nice to meet you too Smile

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Heads up, you said some pretty judgmental stuff so you're probably gonna be edited by the admins (at the least).

I care about looks, but them being a jerk/idiot can make me stop looking.
My preferences aren't typical - I think conformism is responsible for there even being a standard to compare to (and that the mass ideal won't last much longer).
>> Don't understand the third question "If not, what do you think you like, that most people would pay no attention to, or not like at all ?" EDIT; (haven't had coffee yet, but I got it now. Can't think of anything that's never been mentioned before except possibly seeing people do good deeds or defend someone unprompted, that'll make someone attractive to me much more attractive.
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Here we go again....
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(06-02-2014, 07:32 PM)murmi97 Wrote: Heads up, you said some pretty judgmental stuff so you're probably gonna be edited by the admins (at the least).

I care about looks, but them being a jerk/idiot can make me stop looking.
My preferences aren't typical - I think conformism is responsible for there even being a standard to compare to (and that the mass ideal won't last much longer).
>> Don't understand the third question "If not, what do you think you like, that most people would pay no attention to, or not like at all ?"

(06-02-2014, 07:35 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote:
(06-02-2014, 07:32 PM)murmi97 Wrote: Heads up, you said some pretty judgmental stuff so you're probably gonna be edited by the admins (at the least).

I care about looks, but them being a jerk/idiot can make me stop looking.
My preferences aren't typical - I think conformism is responsible for there even being a standard to compare to (and that the mass ideal won't last much longer).
>> Don't understand the third question "If not, what do you think you like, that most people would pay no attention to, or not like at all ?"

Judgemental stuff ? About who ? All I mentioned was personal tastes. Doesn't everyone have them ?

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I've never understood this;

In person, I get along with / relate to most people exceptionally well (during a one on one encounter) yet on Internet forums, it often starts out, and ends, exactly like this seems to be going, here ???

Oh well.
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(06-02-2014, 07:35 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote: Judgemental stuff ? About who ? All I mentioned was personal tastes. Doesn't everyone have them ?

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I've never understood this;

In person, I get along with / relate to most people exceptionally well (during a one on one encounter) yet on Internet forums, it often starts out, and ends, exactly like this seems to be going, here ???

Oh well.

Well you posited some features as negative (of course just to you) but from what I've seen the edit those out here because they make people with those features feel bad about it. I've certainly felt bad before when someone's mentioned small breasts. Yeah it shouldn't be that big a deal but looks are one of the most sensitive subjects we have as a mass-communicating society.
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#8
Goes without saying that the descriptions of your 'preferred types' of women are quite obnoxious and degrading.
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#9
You claim this thread has nothing to do with race, but you mention that more than anything else. If you like Latin women, that's your right, but I think you are basing way too much on what color their skin is.

You say that you would choose the Mexican girl with no boobs and messed up teeth over a Caucasian girl who is "typically pretty." Okay, yes, that may be your preference, but it seems like you are choosing women based on what will get you noticed more. You emphatically say that you are "totally white," and that you don't care what country. (not sure why that would matter to begin with)



(06-02-2014, 06:55 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote: A really tall girl might freak me out. I'm thinking 5ft, to 5'6", 100-130lbs ?

So sorry I would freak you out.... btw Rolleyes

(06-02-2014, 06:55 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote: I know their are people who really don't care about looks.... and these are probably the same people who have blank walls in their homes.... who will flip through a photo album, not even slowing down enough to take in the full beauty of even one beautiful photo.

My walls are far from blank, thank you very much.

(06-02-2014, 06:55 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote: So again, how important are looks to you ?
Do you think you prefer "typically pretty woman / handsome men" ?
If not, what do you think you like, that most people would pay no attention to, or not like at all ?

I would rather have a decent guy, one without a jackass personality. And I could really not care less what other people think of me and my dating choices....
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(06-02-2014, 07:49 PM)murmi97 Wrote:
(06-02-2014, 07:35 PM)Mountain stomper Wrote: Judgemental stuff ? About who ? All I mentioned was personal tastes. Doesn't everyone have them ?

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I've never understood this;

In person, I get along with / relate to most people exceptionally well (during a one on one encounter) yet on Internet forums, it often starts out, and ends, exactly like this seems to be going, here ???

Oh well.

Well you posited some features as negative (of course just to you) but from what I've seen the edit those out here because they make people with those features feel bad about it. I've certainly felt bad before when someone's mentioned small breasts. Yeah it shouldn't be that big a deal but looks are one of the most sensitive subjects we have as a mass-communicating society.

So Murmi, you'd feel bad if I said I STRONGLY prefer women with small breasts ? And again, I just want to stress, I'm not bashing on women with large breasts... but even if I were, they probably get plenty of attention, elsewhere, anyway Smile

Same with when I mentioned, I "personally do not prefer blonde haired, blue eyed, typically pretty white girls". I don't think those women really give a %$#$ what I personally think anyway, either.
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