I thought about putting this under loneliness, but it's not a true loneliness problem.
Anyways, all my life I have either lived with my parents, or with roommates, or with a boyfriend. Now I live in a house all by myself (except for my ever growing animal kingdom), and I love it! It really is the greatest thing ever. I have a place of zen, and I can be me without any judgement. I can be messy (as in things like leave my shoes by the front door), and when I decide to change something, I can change it!
Lately though I have had one problem, and it's starting to affect how I sleep. During the day I am not paranoid about being bothered, but at night when I go to bed paranoia kicks in. I have no idea why. I don't live in an area where there is a bunch of crime. I have two dogs that would at least bark and wake me up if something wrong was going on. But I still wake up in the middle of the night freaked out. I get up at least once a night now and turn on all of my lights and double check locked doors and go back to bed.
I have never been this way before! I don't know what it is, the only thing I can think of is when I lived with people, I had that comfort that there was someone else there to back me up or something to that affect. I really wish I could get it too stop.
Does anyone else have this problem? Or suggestions on how to fix it?
Anyways, all my life I have either lived with my parents, or with roommates, or with a boyfriend. Now I live in a house all by myself (except for my ever growing animal kingdom), and I love it! It really is the greatest thing ever. I have a place of zen, and I can be me without any judgement. I can be messy (as in things like leave my shoes by the front door), and when I decide to change something, I can change it!
Lately though I have had one problem, and it's starting to affect how I sleep. During the day I am not paranoid about being bothered, but at night when I go to bed paranoia kicks in. I have no idea why. I don't live in an area where there is a bunch of crime. I have two dogs that would at least bark and wake me up if something wrong was going on. But I still wake up in the middle of the night freaked out. I get up at least once a night now and turn on all of my lights and double check locked doors and go back to bed.
I have never been this way before! I don't know what it is, the only thing I can think of is when I lived with people, I had that comfort that there was someone else there to back me up or something to that affect. I really wish I could get it too stop.
Does anyone else have this problem? Or suggestions on how to fix it?