LonelySutton
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One thing that keeps me lonely I think is that for some strange reason, every single person that I like, and I would want as a friend... seems enamored and is friends with someone I cannot stand.
My cousin Valarie. I like her... she likes me... but she likes my cousin Katie as much if not more than me. I dislike my cousin Katie. I thought about it.. I can't ever deal with her... or be around her. And it makes me wonder how it can be that someone I genuinely like seems to like someone I find so horrible. And worse, Valarie seems to think it is her job to get us together.
My work friend Susan is friends with someone I despise, Pat. For years I put up with it, hiding my hate for Pat because I liked Susan. But Pat just stabbed me in the back at work and Susan seems bound and determined to think the most positive of Pat. And I am just about to break it off with Susan. I can't see how she can still be friends with Pat. And it says to me she thinks differently than me. So there goes another friend.
My last boyfriend had a friend that I just couldn't stand. Uncommunicative, short, and clearly couldn't stand me. I always felt in competition and frequently we did everything with his buddy.
And worse, I like to keep people sort of just one on one. But I HATE, and it happens a lot, I invite someone out and they bring someone else out at the last minute with us. I agreed to lunch with you... not this other person? Aren't I enough? I guess not.
My cousin Valarie. I like her... she likes me... but she likes my cousin Katie as much if not more than me. I dislike my cousin Katie. I thought about it.. I can't ever deal with her... or be around her. And it makes me wonder how it can be that someone I genuinely like seems to like someone I find so horrible. And worse, Valarie seems to think it is her job to get us together.
My work friend Susan is friends with someone I despise, Pat. For years I put up with it, hiding my hate for Pat because I liked Susan. But Pat just stabbed me in the back at work and Susan seems bound and determined to think the most positive of Pat. And I am just about to break it off with Susan. I can't see how she can still be friends with Pat. And it says to me she thinks differently than me. So there goes another friend.
My last boyfriend had a friend that I just couldn't stand. Uncommunicative, short, and clearly couldn't stand me. I always felt in competition and frequently we did everything with his buddy.
And worse, I like to keep people sort of just one on one. But I HATE, and it happens a lot, I invite someone out and they bring someone else out at the last minute with us. I agreed to lunch with you... not this other person? Aren't I enough? I guess not.