I've been friends with this girl for awhile and now we've become best friends. I feel closer to her than I've ever felt to anyone.
Well I have a huge problem. It's really hard to explain, but I'll try my best. After being good friends with someone for awhile I start getting suspicious that they're going to leave me and find someone better, which leads to depression and extremely negative feelings towards them and I end up pushing them away. Even if they haven't done anything that suggests they want to.
Well this started happening with my best friend. When we met we were sort of both the same, as in we were shy and didn't talk to many people. So when we met we clicked. We really love cosplay and after we met we started going to a lot of events and met more people. After a year she got more outgoing and I was still the same. So I started to get jealous and started pushing her away. Although she's hard to push away. Sometimes I even think she's trying to make me jealous when she talks to her new friends. The thing is, I we've made the same amount of friends AND pretty much the same ones since we're always together when we go to these events, it's just that I get jealous thinking they like her more because she's prettier and more outgoing than me. I feel like I'm also being clingy and I hate it. -_- Does anyone have any advice? Sorry this was long.
Well I have a huge problem. It's really hard to explain, but I'll try my best. After being good friends with someone for awhile I start getting suspicious that they're going to leave me and find someone better, which leads to depression and extremely negative feelings towards them and I end up pushing them away. Even if they haven't done anything that suggests they want to.
Well this started happening with my best friend. When we met we were sort of both the same, as in we were shy and didn't talk to many people. So when we met we clicked. We really love cosplay and after we met we started going to a lot of events and met more people. After a year she got more outgoing and I was still the same. So I started to get jealous and started pushing her away. Although she's hard to push away. Sometimes I even think she's trying to make me jealous when she talks to her new friends. The thing is, I we've made the same amount of friends AND pretty much the same ones since we're always together when we go to these events, it's just that I get jealous thinking they like her more because she's prettier and more outgoing than me. I feel like I'm also being clingy and I hate it. -_- Does anyone have any advice? Sorry this was long.