SarcasticJuan
Active member
Ok so this is my first proper relationship/life related post. I will try to tell my story the best I can without boring you all.
The way I see it, normal peope meet their first proper relationship around 15-16, well I left school at 16 and just stuck with my clique of friends before then, so I didn't have much action with the ladies back then, after this I tried a college course, it wasn't for me, I just didn't click with anyone, male or female, and most of the class ended up quitting too and I eventually did too. In 2008 my family who I live with moved about 4 hours away so goodbye friends and all social things that involved them, it was just before moving that I was starting to go to parties and chat with new people, and generally come out of my shell more, but yeah, we ended up moving and I tried this new college, needless to say I didn't have much luck making friends here either, as it seemed everyone was already in their little groups, there was one girl I was talking to who I was trying to get to know more but she ended up in another group so we drifted apart, I ended up quitting that course too. Basically I missed the class about meeting girls.
Over the years I tried more college courses, still not having any social luck and losing interest in the courses.
So here I am, I have a job right now, not a great one or even a regular 9 to 5 one but it's something that gives me a bit of money, I'm not complaining really, but the problem is I'd like to just meet a woman, I did have a relationship with a girl from America, we met online and eventually met here in Scotland for a couple of weeks, although distance only lasts so long when you're two broke kids.
I've tried dating sites, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, I've had a few dates (and about 3000 ignores) but they tend to lose interest, stop replying, or seem very interested and then act like you're nobody the next day. I don't get these sites at all. I don't think I'm socially awkward with women, perhaps unsure of flirting and whether or not to try and sleep with them, and how to ask or suggest, that's my only real problem with talking to women, besides I'm more interested in finding out about them as a person than sleeping with them.
So other than dating sites I have no idea how to meet women, I don't like clubbing and wouldn't know how to meet someone that way, there's nobody at work I can even tolerate let alone ask out, I will occasionally see a girl I like in public but it feels weird to talk to a complete stranger unless we are put into a situation where we have to talk.
I don't know what to ask here, maybe someone can analyse the situation. :shy:
The way I see it, normal peope meet their first proper relationship around 15-16, well I left school at 16 and just stuck with my clique of friends before then, so I didn't have much action with the ladies back then, after this I tried a college course, it wasn't for me, I just didn't click with anyone, male or female, and most of the class ended up quitting too and I eventually did too. In 2008 my family who I live with moved about 4 hours away so goodbye friends and all social things that involved them, it was just before moving that I was starting to go to parties and chat with new people, and generally come out of my shell more, but yeah, we ended up moving and I tried this new college, needless to say I didn't have much luck making friends here either, as it seemed everyone was already in their little groups, there was one girl I was talking to who I was trying to get to know more but she ended up in another group so we drifted apart, I ended up quitting that course too. Basically I missed the class about meeting girls.
Over the years I tried more college courses, still not having any social luck and losing interest in the courses.
So here I am, I have a job right now, not a great one or even a regular 9 to 5 one but it's something that gives me a bit of money, I'm not complaining really, but the problem is I'd like to just meet a woman, I did have a relationship with a girl from America, we met online and eventually met here in Scotland for a couple of weeks, although distance only lasts so long when you're two broke kids.
I've tried dating sites, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, I've had a few dates (and about 3000 ignores) but they tend to lose interest, stop replying, or seem very interested and then act like you're nobody the next day. I don't get these sites at all. I don't think I'm socially awkward with women, perhaps unsure of flirting and whether or not to try and sleep with them, and how to ask or suggest, that's my only real problem with talking to women, besides I'm more interested in finding out about them as a person than sleeping with them.
So other than dating sites I have no idea how to meet women, I don't like clubbing and wouldn't know how to meet someone that way, there's nobody at work I can even tolerate let alone ask out, I will occasionally see a girl I like in public but it feels weird to talk to a complete stranger unless we are put into a situation where we have to talk.
I don't know what to ask here, maybe someone can analyse the situation. :shy: