ordinaryDude
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No I'm not gay, sexually I'm extremely attracted to girls.
But for some reason I have never managed to become crazy about any girl, like some guys do. I've seen guys doing things for the girl that could embarrass them, humiliate them, but I just could never make a sense out of those actions.
I have had crushes, but that's just about it, I never felt deep love which would make me pursue or cry for the girl. Of course me being originally a sub-continental guy living in Europe hasn't made it easier to really become intimate with girls in Europe(cultural difference plays a role), but still I haven't found any girl where I could say "She is the one, I must do something about her or I will regret for life".
May be you could say I'm not romantic enough or emotional enough, but on the other hand it's the lack emotional connection that still prevents me from having a sexual relationship with any girl. I cannot imagine having sex with a girl without love being there, but I don't fall in love. I find it so difficult to fall in love.
Is this normal? Or am I actually misunderstanding "falling in love"?
But for some reason I have never managed to become crazy about any girl, like some guys do. I've seen guys doing things for the girl that could embarrass them, humiliate them, but I just could never make a sense out of those actions.
I have had crushes, but that's just about it, I never felt deep love which would make me pursue or cry for the girl. Of course me being originally a sub-continental guy living in Europe hasn't made it easier to really become intimate with girls in Europe(cultural difference plays a role), but still I haven't found any girl where I could say "She is the one, I must do something about her or I will regret for life".
May be you could say I'm not romantic enough or emotional enough, but on the other hand it's the lack emotional connection that still prevents me from having a sexual relationship with any girl. I cannot imagine having sex with a girl without love being there, but I don't fall in love. I find it so difficult to fall in love.
Is this normal? Or am I actually misunderstanding "falling in love"?