WILL I BE ALONE FOREVER

nycdoctor · Dec 22, 2014

I been divorced for 3 years now. My last relationship was last year and it last a few months. I have been feeling lonely. I am a great guy.I am a well educated (doctor), independent (financially), secure (emotionally), family oriented, very hard worker, many goals in life, etc. I would say, the right package..but it seem that no one wants me? I am average looking and take good care of myself.

I am on match, pof..eharomony. No luck on any of those site.

I don't know what I am doing wrong.

SophiaGrace · Dec 22, 2014

Curious…what was the cause of your divorce?

rcal · Dec 22, 2014

There's no reason you should be alone forever is there ..?

Do you socialize ?

nycdoctor · Dec 22, 2014

I don't socialize. I work during the week and get home and just sleep and eat.

The weekend I am trying to catch up with everything of the week

EveWasFramed · Dec 22, 2014

nycdoctor said:
I been divorced for 3 years now. My last relationship was last year and it last a few months. I have been feeling lonely. I am a great guy.I am a well educated (doctor), independent (financially), secure (emotionally), family oriented, very hard worker, many goals in life, etc. I would say, the right package..but it seem that no one wants me? I am average looking and take good care of myself.

I am on match, pof..eharomony. No luck on any of those site.

I don't know what I am doing wrong.

I've been on all three of those. eHarmony (believe it or not) is the absolute worst of the three. Match.com leaves me with a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. POF wasn't too terribly bad, but you have to week through some very strange people. I don't think any of the sites are they great. I tried zoosk too. Boy was that just a big bundle of weird.

Is it possible that maybe ladies might think you're too busy? You mentioned having a busy schedule.

"I don't know what I am doing wrong."

OMG I totally understand.

Welcome to the forum, by the way.

Frodothelost · Dec 27, 2014

nycdoctor said:
I been divorced for 3 years now. My last relationship was last year and it last a few months. I have been feeling lonely. I am a great guy.I am a well educated (doctor), independent (financially), secure (emotionally), family oriented, very hard worker, many goals in life, etc. I would say, the right package..but it seem that no one wants me? I am average looking and take good care of myself.

I am on match, pof..eharomony. No luck on any of those site.

I don't know what I am doing wrong.

i think i already posted on your thread but its ok i dont mind.
if you still love her then prayer to god if your atheist im sorry if you are then post on your wall that you needs an open relationship its the final way even a well educated man like you looking for lost love you also can try dating site, video chat with unknown people or talk with your friends tell about yoour feelings and problems if you totally blind.then you pm me i'll you

jd7 · Dec 27, 2014

Get a sports car and a sport jacket and hit the scene.

Dude...

Nuzzy Nuz · Dec 27, 2014

jd7 said:
Get a sports car and a sport jacket and hit the scene. Dude...

Whoa.. I guess i know what u meant..

best direct advice..

LonelySutton · Dec 27, 2014

What are you looking for in a woman? Realistic or some 25 year old?
I think it is just hard in general to "stick" with people these days especially if you are busy. It is just hard to see people and be with them and be communicative.

greenapple271 · Dec 27, 2014

Perhaps it's because doctors are very busy and they think perhaps you won't have enough time for them? I don't know if you're into this but I've been looking at Tarot readings online. I don't know if they can predict the future or not but I find they give me guidance. I do a single card reading every day.
I've wondered the same thing as you in my life. Wondering why I haven't got someone. What I have learned to do is not wonder why as it throws up more questions than answers and drives you mad. Perhaps give your mind a rest about this and the answers might come to you more clearly.

stork_error · Dec 27, 2014

SophiaGrace said:
Curious…what was the cause of your divorce?

nycdoctor · Dec 27, 2014

When the IVF failed the second time...she just gave up on everything...on having a baby..on me..and left

ladyforsaken · Dec 28, 2014

I'm sorry to hear about that, nycdoctor.

Morse Code · Dec 29, 2014

Eharmony keeps insisting that I'm married even though I'm not, never been close and don't know where the hell they would get that idea.

nycdoctor · Dec 29, 2014

eharmony is horrible

EveWasFramed · Dec 29, 2014

nycdoctor said:
eharmony is horrible

Agreed.

jaguarundi · Dec 31, 2014

Not much information to go on here, so I am taking a guess, and I am wondering if you are really over what happened with your ex-wife?

Really over her, and the loss of your child .. Yes, I know it was failed IVF but it was an idea of a child, a shadow of a child, and a family.

Women get a fair amount of sympathy for this type of thing, I suspect men don't, so I am wondering if you allowed yourself to grieve?

If not, you have unfinished business which may be hampering you in finding other relationships..and burying yourself in work ain't going to help.

greenapple271 · Jan 1, 2015

Nyc doctor, hope you have a happier new year.

Frodothelost · Jan 1, 2015

doctor seriously i have a problem. when i'm in restroom i feel headache and all chest hurts like something running inside.

mari1969 · Jan 2, 2015

I guess you have a lot of coworkers and maybe some friends from the University.

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