Setting my atmosphere after coffee and breakfast usually helps.
Adjust the lights, put some sort of a scent you like in the air, maybe incense or candles or air freshener, some music on that you like, and mentally prepare yourself for what you have to do while focusing on finishing your tasks. Coffee is a huge help to me, one because I like the taste of it, two because I'm often quite sleep deprived, which is the biggest emotional downkicker next to not having enough nutrients in you.
The first step to accomplishing a large list is to accept the fact that you cannot do it at all at one time.
So you have to break it down and do a little of it each day. Which, is much more tiring, but much more likely to be fulfilling and less exhausting because you can get more things done than just that list of things you made to do since you're only doing a little of it at a time. You could then, say, go hang out with your friends or take the drive to the store that you wanted to take instead.
Often times to pry myself out of bed, I have to shift my mind onto something in focus that I give more of a **** about than the list of things I've got to do. It's the WHY I'm doing them that I have to focus on, not the how. The how, I've already figured out. It's the WHY that's the deeper question.
I have to motivate myself out of demotivation, which is one Hell of a sonofabitch to do. Sigh....in the immortal words of my grandmother: "The dishes aren't going to do themselves..." Streaming loud music throughout the house while you do chores also makes the chores go by faster and more entertaining.
The other things you have to look at are what it is that's impeding you from following through....
Is it just your feelings and thoughts?
Is it a substance abuse problem?
Is it a social interaction problem?
Is it a family problem?
You have to find out what it is that's detouring you, and then act in opposition thereof that problem. If your thoughts and feelings are the problem, use your list of things to do and an atmosphere as a distraction. Try falling into being productive and motivated doing them (you can start anywhere, with just one thing, really) than letting your mind wonder to much (I've done this, so I know what it's like). If you're drinking a lot, or on drugs, put it down for a bit, be responsible and take care of your life for a while. These things are taxing to the mind and body, and life often demands a person's sobriety to fix up loose ends from time spent in intoxication. If it's a social interaction problem, confront the person, be honest, calm, and forward. The weight of it off your conscience will greatly ease your mind and you'll be able to focus better. If it's a family problem, remember that no matter what choices you make or how little of a relationship that you have that your family will always love and accept you. As my mother says: "Blood is thicker than water." There is no problem or no lifestyle that a family cannot learn to oversee in the name of love for one another.
It's all about being in your atmosphere and thinking things through, clearly, rationally, and accepting reality as it is and then formulating a conceptual plan to improve the situation.