I agree with Danielle, talk to someone about it.
Also, break out of your cycle, meet new people, do new things, do different things, volunteer, get a new hobby, whatever. Find new people to be around, but remember, you can get a pretty good idea of what you might get back from them from where you are meeting them. So, if you meet them at a bar, they could very well be loud and overbearing, whereas if you meet them at a soup kitchen, they will be more likely to be caring and considerate.
Now, there are exceptions of course and that by no means applies to everyone, so you COULD meet someone caring at a bar and someone who is an ass at a soup kitchen.
Once you find some like minded people who are more caring, you will feel better about yourself, but giving up will get you nowhere. Keep trying.
Rainbows said:
VanillaCreme said:
BeyondShy said:
Oh hell yeah. I believe in all my heart that if you give a girl a choice of being with a guy who is average looking and will treat her good and not run around on her or give her reason to doubt the relationship or being with a really handsome guy that will treat her like crap and come and go when he pleases and if the spirit moves him he'll screw her sister. She will take the handsomer guy in a minute. No one even try to change my mind on this because the same women that don't give you a chance are the same ones who complain that there are no good men out there.
That's kind of sad to know people actually truly believe in this. Not saying that it never occurs, because it surely does - and I can count on at least one hand people I've known in my life that tacked onto someone just because the person showed them the interest and affection they were looking for - but still... The mere thought is sad to me. I'd go for mediocre who I got along with and genuinely liked over handsome who treats me like I mean nothing. However, handsome or not, I'd much prefer to have someone that I get along with in general, regardless of what he looks like.
Same. My current boyfriend isn't the most handsome of them all but he's the sweetest person I know. He listens to me (knows I'm on here), gets up in the middle of the night for me (when I'm having a panic attack). I wouldn't want to trade him. I wouldn't want a more handsome guy just because. I love him because he's the only one that gets me, not because of the way he looks.
Ask yourself this: Why would you want that kind of woman that treats men that way? Find someone better than that.
I agree with Rainbows and Nilla.
Also, the less good looking people can treat you like honeysuckle too. I will go for personality any day. At the end of the day, it's not about how you look, it's about how you act and how you treat people. Looks don't last (unless of course you pay for them to last), but a good heart will last forever.
