I find myself doing extremely well these days, exept for a bit of procrastinating here and there but the only reason I'm doing so well is because I have people around me who are convinced i'm incapable and constantly remind me that I can't do certain things or that I'm not hardworking enough & so I work extra hard just to prove to them that I can. Infact, sometimes I don't think it's me i'm working hard for. Clearly, it's helped a bit/helping but it's not comfortable at all. I want to get to a point where I do things for myself because I feel like I am basically living to prove something & I'm aware that I don't need to live this way. I want to be okay with failing as long as I pick myself up & try again. I want to live & do well for my own sake.
My questions, is this kind of living healthy at all? And, what can I do to start impressing myself & making myself proud & doing things for me?
Any advice would be highly appreciated.
My questions, is this kind of living healthy at all? And, what can I do to start impressing myself & making myself proud & doing things for me?
Any advice would be highly appreciated.