Blueforge88
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I have a friend that, I've known since high school that is currently in a long term relationship. He really didn't start having luck with ladies until, after we graduated high school. For, the past decade of our friendship he has had plenty of success with ladies where I have failed but, he has a problem that affects his friendships with others and relationships. He has no sense of responsibility or fear of consequence.
He is the kind of guy, who will go behind your back doing something idiotic that, breaks your trust and have no remorse for what he does. He's made attempts to seduce the girlfriends of two mutual friends and got caught for it once. This ruined a friendship between, himself and another friend. His attitude towards the situation was pretty much: "It was her fault and he should thank me for exposing girlfriend as a slut. I'm just pissed he didn't invite me to their wedding!"
Typically, he will meet a lady, strike her fancy with conversation and charming his way into her life. Then lives off her like a parasite until, he tires of her or she starts getting to attached to him. Then, he moves on to the next girl and at some point balances between two or three women. He has been with his current girlfriend for two years now, and he's disappointed her countless times. She understands who he is as person but, even after he cheats on her she still continues to cook for him, provide for him and lets him drive her car. He'll do small things to keep her happy but, he knows she is just tolerating his antics. To add to his delight, she has agreed to an open relationship because, she knows he cant be trusted to commit and she wants to travel the world. Her only condition is "That he doesnt tell another woman his emotional drama, that he hasent told her". Which I think is pretty dumb.
As for me, they both seem to pity the fact that, I am alone and Im often the butt of their jokes. They also find themselves providing me relationship "advice". The fact that, I want a monogamous and sincere relationship to them is laughable. However, even more deeper than that, he gf hits on me very subtly. She's forced kissed me, insinuated something between us, and brushes it off as a joke but, even more recently shes flashed me behind his back. His answer to this was, that of all the men she can sleep with, that I am off limits and if, i did it behind his back, he'd never forgive me. My answer to him was "@#$% you!"
So, I decided to distance myself from the both of them. For someone, who has always wanted a meaningful relationship and gone his adult life without, one I feel like being around someone like him is a slap to the face. I'm willing to be commited and there for someone I love, and hes out damaging any semblance of a healthy relationship and gets rewarded for it on top of it. I'm not stupid enough to engage with his gf but, part of me feels like if I did it would be well deserved. However, I'll keep my honor and continue searching for something meaningful. In the meantime, he continue to let people down until, he reaches a point where he is powerless to do so.
He is the kind of guy, who will go behind your back doing something idiotic that, breaks your trust and have no remorse for what he does. He's made attempts to seduce the girlfriends of two mutual friends and got caught for it once. This ruined a friendship between, himself and another friend. His attitude towards the situation was pretty much: "It was her fault and he should thank me for exposing girlfriend as a slut. I'm just pissed he didn't invite me to their wedding!"
Typically, he will meet a lady, strike her fancy with conversation and charming his way into her life. Then lives off her like a parasite until, he tires of her or she starts getting to attached to him. Then, he moves on to the next girl and at some point balances between two or three women. He has been with his current girlfriend for two years now, and he's disappointed her countless times. She understands who he is as person but, even after he cheats on her she still continues to cook for him, provide for him and lets him drive her car. He'll do small things to keep her happy but, he knows she is just tolerating his antics. To add to his delight, she has agreed to an open relationship because, she knows he cant be trusted to commit and she wants to travel the world. Her only condition is "That he doesnt tell another woman his emotional drama, that he hasent told her". Which I think is pretty dumb.
As for me, they both seem to pity the fact that, I am alone and Im often the butt of their jokes. They also find themselves providing me relationship "advice". The fact that, I want a monogamous and sincere relationship to them is laughable. However, even more deeper than that, he gf hits on me very subtly. She's forced kissed me, insinuated something between us, and brushes it off as a joke but, even more recently shes flashed me behind his back. His answer to this was, that of all the men she can sleep with, that I am off limits and if, i did it behind his back, he'd never forgive me. My answer to him was "@#$% you!"
So, I decided to distance myself from the both of them. For someone, who has always wanted a meaningful relationship and gone his adult life without, one I feel like being around someone like him is a slap to the face. I'm willing to be commited and there for someone I love, and hes out damaging any semblance of a healthy relationship and gets rewarded for it on top of it. I'm not stupid enough to engage with his gf but, part of me feels like if I did it would be well deserved. However, I'll keep my honor and continue searching for something meaningful. In the meantime, he continue to let people down until, he reaches a point where he is powerless to do so.
