Triple Bogey
Well-known member
Does anybody go on them ?
Do you make excuses and not go ?
Or do you not even get asked ?
We have quite a lot at work. I haven't been on one for several years now. People at work beg me to go on them. I have had loads of really bad experiences on nights out so I am always very reluctant to go on them.
The latest one is a few weeks away. This bloke (Tom) is leaving. He's a nice fella and we talk quite a bit mostly about football. There is a list in the canteen with around 10 people's name on it. I have no intention of going but the manager said something interesting today. He said Tom remarked to him if I was going he was going to 'take the piss' out of me all night. In other words make fun out of me, give me a hard time. I found this really odd. I have always got on with Tom and I have no idea why he would do this to me. I can take a joke but I think he had something different in mind. A non stop barrage of insults or jokes with the rest of the table (mostly women) laughing at me.
Funny thing is, all the way thru my life I have suffered treatment like this on nights out. People giving me honeysuckle. Either women laughing at me or blokes taking the piss. It's a major reason why I don't socialize anymore.
I wonder why people do this to me ?
Anybody ?
Do you make excuses and not go ?
Or do you not even get asked ?
We have quite a lot at work. I haven't been on one for several years now. People at work beg me to go on them. I have had loads of really bad experiences on nights out so I am always very reluctant to go on them.
The latest one is a few weeks away. This bloke (Tom) is leaving. He's a nice fella and we talk quite a bit mostly about football. There is a list in the canteen with around 10 people's name on it. I have no intention of going but the manager said something interesting today. He said Tom remarked to him if I was going he was going to 'take the piss' out of me all night. In other words make fun out of me, give me a hard time. I found this really odd. I have always got on with Tom and I have no idea why he would do this to me. I can take a joke but I think he had something different in mind. A non stop barrage of insults or jokes with the rest of the table (mostly women) laughing at me.
Funny thing is, all the way thru my life I have suffered treatment like this on nights out. People giving me honeysuckle. Either women laughing at me or blokes taking the piss. It's a major reason why I don't socialize anymore.
I wonder why people do this to me ?
Anybody ?