pancakes_online
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I feel so lost in life, and in myself. Everyone in their twenties seems to be off doing things but I have almost no idea what I'm doing, either career wise or in my personal life. I just graduated this year (at 27) and I feel very late to the game, I see lots of 18-21 year olds who have their life together. I used to have a few close friends but they have all drifted away over the years, it really sucks. I think if I didn't have my parents to go on days out with I would become cut off from society.
I don't know if it is normal to be this effected by lonliness. A lot of people my age or younger just seem to get on with it. Are some of us born sensitive souls? I still remember instances from years back where I had opportunities with girls, for example, and I still rue all the missed opportunities.
I need to pick up the pieces of my broken life but it seems like the hardest thing ever - after all how do you change the habits of a lifetime? I can see glimpses of how I might change, but it will require time, confidence, money and probably luck. I guess what I do (or don't do) now will effect the rest of my life, so I better get my act together. Someone give me a slap and tell me its no too late, please? :club:
I don't know if it is normal to be this effected by lonliness. A lot of people my age or younger just seem to get on with it. Are some of us born sensitive souls? I still remember instances from years back where I had opportunities with girls, for example, and I still rue all the missed opportunities.
I need to pick up the pieces of my broken life but it seems like the hardest thing ever - after all how do you change the habits of a lifetime? I can see glimpses of how I might change, but it will require time, confidence, money and probably luck. I guess what I do (or don't do) now will effect the rest of my life, so I better get my act together. Someone give me a slap and tell me its no too late, please? :club: