danj210
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Something I think about often is what makes the one, the one. Is it only because you're happy or content with the person you're with? How do you know that person is the one without going person to person and seeing what each man or woman does differently than the other? I have a difficult time understanding this. I also have a hard time going girl to girl and telling each one I love them that they are the one, can you tell them that they are not the one but you do love them? I mean not really, that doesn't sound like it would be nice to hear. If I or you find and tell someone that they are the one and they say the same in return but then they leave you, then they aren't the one anymore just because they leave you? How then do you go to the next man or woman and tell them that they are one only because the real one left you? I don't think it would be fair to women if I go woman to women trying to find out if one truly does exist that beats the one that left you that you thought was the real one.
So yea. I have a hard time accepting that I must go girl to girl telling each one I love only to potentially hurt them or get hurt by them while hoping the feelings with them overcome those feelings with the one that left me. I don't think it would be fair to do that to women.
So there's some thoughts I think about often...
So yea. I have a hard time accepting that I must go girl to girl telling each one I love only to potentially hurt them or get hurt by them while hoping the feelings with them overcome those feelings with the one that left me. I don't think it would be fair to do that to women.
So there's some thoughts I think about often...