People don't interact unless it is via phone.
I'm alone all the time and travel a lot so when I sick of staring at hotel rooms and re-ran all the cliche's theough my head, I'll venture out to a bar or lounge.
I used to be more of a hunter, so to speak. Never had an issue meeting girls at bars (I look pretty and harmless) but after the initial "Hey how you doing?" You can usually get a feel and nothing really worked better then just "wanna fresia?" If that's all we were there for. Not that it always worked, but it cut out the cat and mouse and onto the next subject. Sometimes the refusal was the best because we'd spend hours after just talking.
Now something is happening to me (I don't know if it is an age thing... honeysuckle, I'm almost 22!) and I tend to pick dark spots and bring a book and hide - it's nore a change of scenery and some weird need to be around people but knowing I won't ever be... So I watch. And it's truly apalling. I mean, families and dates that just sit across from each other and stare at their phones.
Now I'm a bit of a hypocrite because I'm not the greatest at communicating when I'm not being a fake cocky romancer. Give me alcohol, drugs, and a room full of people and if I'm in the right mood and I can get along just fine. Sober and one and one I'm a bit of an insecure chicken honeysuckle but I would TRY, if I had someone.
Today, there doesn't seem to be much try. Human communication is becoming lost - I wonder if anyone knows what it's like to touch someone without it being a fresia.
They say there is plenty of fish in the sea, and maybe it's an issue that the sea is at our fingertips. If we don't get what we want on the first date, you're next, because hey, there's a 1000 girls that match my profile that won't make me work so hard!
We're dispensible and easy to toss away because no one ever takes the time and effort to actually get to know someone anymore.
We're a bunch of lazy, inconsiderate, demeaning, selfish fucktards, basically.
VanillaCreme said:
If she's with a dude, why's she worried about other guys not talking to her?
He can, she can.
Not that I'm an expert because I've only been in one short relationship that meant anything, but it sounds like this relationship needs to be let go before the blame game and bitter vindictiveness of who can hurt who more comes out to play.