hitch1983
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How do you find online?
Im a member of a few sites and yet it seems impossible to find a connection.
I find it hard to single out a woman i would be genuinely interested in. There[s soo many, it just seems like a sea of faces.
So i lose motivation to write any first messages. Plus when i finally do try message a girl, i strike out. i would say it was because of the content of the message, but everyone seems to be the same when they message if i base on what they send me. i.e. how are you etc..... so it seems to either work or it doesnt...im guessing its based on looks.
But thats another thing every message i send out, goes ignored and every message i get is from someone i dont feel any passion for.
Plus i start off locally but choice is limited, so end up going further afield, but i know when i do that, im basically signing up to long distance, and thats the last thing i want at my stage of life.
so it just seems impossible
so how do you actually use online dating properly????
Im a member of a few sites and yet it seems impossible to find a connection.
I find it hard to single out a woman i would be genuinely interested in. There[s soo many, it just seems like a sea of faces.
So i lose motivation to write any first messages. Plus when i finally do try message a girl, i strike out. i would say it was because of the content of the message, but everyone seems to be the same when they message if i base on what they send me. i.e. how are you etc..... so it seems to either work or it doesnt...im guessing its based on looks.
But thats another thing every message i send out, goes ignored and every message i get is from someone i dont feel any passion for.
Plus i start off locally but choice is limited, so end up going further afield, but i know when i do that, im basically signing up to long distance, and thats the last thing i want at my stage of life.
so it just seems impossible
so how do you actually use online dating properly????