BeyondShy
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Have you ever got to the point where you do things so out of the ordinary that when it is all over you are surprised that you did it?
Well, that's what happened to me last evening.
I went to a place near where I live called Down to Earth. This is a store that sells organic foods and other stuff that is good for you. Basically it is just a grocery store and that's where I do a lot of my shopping.
When I was all done I had less than twenty items in my cart. They have a few check-out lines for people who don't have a lot of stuff so I got in line there and waited my turn. Pretty soon I noticed that someone was behind me, a kid who looked like he had to be seventeen or eighteen years old. He only had two items with him so I decided to do the nice thing and I said to him since you only have those things you can go ahead of me. Strangers have done this same thing to me in the past and I would always thank them for it. This was my way of returning a favor that was done for me to another person.
So, this kid with his two items walks ahead of me and puts his stuff on the conveyor belt and says nothing. Doesn't even turn around to say thank you.
Usually a transaction like that takes less than a minute but right before this kid got his stuff rung up another employee (who must have been some kind of supervisor) came up to the cashier and asked her a few questions. The questions did not take long but it was long enough for me to start thinking about what he did -or I should say did not do. And I got madder and madder. As soon as the other employee walked away she went right back to work. I got her attention because she saw what I did by letting this person go ahead of me. I told her don't you even attempt to ring this guy's order ahead of mine. Then I picked up his two things and put them behind mine. I told him if you don't know how to say thank you or even acknowledge what I did then you get right behind me where you belong.
His response? "Yeah, whatever." Now I know I didn't do anything major for someone but a thank you goes a long way. At least for me. This has happened to me before and I didn't like it but I never said anything. I don't know why yesterday was different for me. I wish I could explain why I did what I did. Maybe you get to a point when you say enough is enough. Again, I don't know.
Maybe 'surprised' isn't the right word for this. I probably should have said shocked. I'm sure something like this has happened to many of you because there are a lot of people like this. Maybe you handled it better then I did.
Thanks for reading.
Well, that's what happened to me last evening.
I went to a place near where I live called Down to Earth. This is a store that sells organic foods and other stuff that is good for you. Basically it is just a grocery store and that's where I do a lot of my shopping.
When I was all done I had less than twenty items in my cart. They have a few check-out lines for people who don't have a lot of stuff so I got in line there and waited my turn. Pretty soon I noticed that someone was behind me, a kid who looked like he had to be seventeen or eighteen years old. He only had two items with him so I decided to do the nice thing and I said to him since you only have those things you can go ahead of me. Strangers have done this same thing to me in the past and I would always thank them for it. This was my way of returning a favor that was done for me to another person.
So, this kid with his two items walks ahead of me and puts his stuff on the conveyor belt and says nothing. Doesn't even turn around to say thank you.
Usually a transaction like that takes less than a minute but right before this kid got his stuff rung up another employee (who must have been some kind of supervisor) came up to the cashier and asked her a few questions. The questions did not take long but it was long enough for me to start thinking about what he did -or I should say did not do. And I got madder and madder. As soon as the other employee walked away she went right back to work. I got her attention because she saw what I did by letting this person go ahead of me. I told her don't you even attempt to ring this guy's order ahead of mine. Then I picked up his two things and put them behind mine. I told him if you don't know how to say thank you or even acknowledge what I did then you get right behind me where you belong.
His response? "Yeah, whatever." Now I know I didn't do anything major for someone but a thank you goes a long way. At least for me. This has happened to me before and I didn't like it but I never said anything. I don't know why yesterday was different for me. I wish I could explain why I did what I did. Maybe you get to a point when you say enough is enough. Again, I don't know.
Maybe 'surprised' isn't the right word for this. I probably should have said shocked. I'm sure something like this has happened to many of you because there are a lot of people like this. Maybe you handled it better then I did.
Thanks for reading.