Alone By Faults
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Being single is too much hard work...
Not in keeping shape, being polite, and being happy in myself now but the issues that are presented so early on. Most who have adequate social and life skills are married. The ones that are divorced or single (myself included) have issues that come out right away.
Latest coffee get together with a divorced woman near my age. Third sip in and I get the venting of the stress that he ex husband is now sponging off his mother. But she is happy that she cut the purse strings and that she is happy now that it is "me" time.
While I appreciate the "trust" or probably the ease of having someone who thinks they can vent and unload their emotional garbage so soon, this turned into a land mine right away. It is not uncommon for women of this age to list past hurts and how they are triumphing over them in the first date. Cup of coffee and another potential done.
Women in their late 20's are so much more optimistic in life. Too young to have a relationship (physical or emotionl) but to hang, talk, and have coffee it is a pleasant afternoon out.
Today confirmed that prospects are dim and that I dam well better be responsible for my own happiness.
Not in keeping shape, being polite, and being happy in myself now but the issues that are presented so early on. Most who have adequate social and life skills are married. The ones that are divorced or single (myself included) have issues that come out right away.
Latest coffee get together with a divorced woman near my age. Third sip in and I get the venting of the stress that he ex husband is now sponging off his mother. But she is happy that she cut the purse strings and that she is happy now that it is "me" time.
While I appreciate the "trust" or probably the ease of having someone who thinks they can vent and unload their emotional garbage so soon, this turned into a land mine right away. It is not uncommon for women of this age to list past hurts and how they are triumphing over them in the first date. Cup of coffee and another potential done.
Women in their late 20's are so much more optimistic in life. Too young to have a relationship (physical or emotionl) but to hang, talk, and have coffee it is a pleasant afternoon out.
Today confirmed that prospects are dim and that I dam well better be responsible for my own happiness.