Serenia said:How long have you or would you wait to meet up in person?
Obviously taking necessary safety precautions.
Paraiyar said:I can't force myself to smile in photos (I just end up looking ridiculous) so I often don't. I also have kept what's written on my profile short because I've noticed that women don't seem to like a ramble at all. I haven't had it up for long and haven't got any replies yet. The photo of me is at the Berlin wall and I think you can't actually see me that well which might be part of the problem.
Serenia said:Ska - Yeah we have traded a few pics. The ones I sent makes me look better than I do in real life .
Paraiyar - I wish I could just shut off the anxiety before we meet. My problem is that if there is no chemistry and it is a genuine mismatch in person, to me it will still feel like a rejection.
My best friend says I am being silly and I look as nice as the pics. But I don't see that in the mirror I see someone very ugly.
Serenia said:Soooo the date has been set for a while, we are meeting in less than 3 weeks. The more we text and talk it gets better and better, we have some sort of connection/spark.
But now it gets closer, my anxiety levels are going through the roof. What if he is disappointed? Unless he has lied and is a completely different person in real life than the person I have been getting to know, then I can't see any disappointment on my side.
Shall I just look at it as a good evening out and a one off, to help me prepare for him being disappointed in me. Then if it goes well, it is a bonus.
Any thoughts?
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