cryingcloud
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I don't mean suicide, I'm not talking about death.
I'm talking about wishing I was never born...obviously I was, and now have no choice but to press forward...but it sucks...I don't want to, I want to quit.
When it rains, it pours, and it's been pouring a lot lately.
I'm 21, and have never been so stressed or unhappy before...and this time, it has nothing to do with my family or friend relationships.
It's my pure self.
I thought your 20's were supposed to be fun and exciting...full of new experiences, new people, careers, independence, traveling, etc...
But it's not for me.
I'm living in an apartment with a roommate, trying to get through college and work. I moved out on my own at 19. Since I turned 18, I've been responsible for all of my own bills, ALL of them; health insurance, car insurance, school, phone...and now that I have my own place; rent, and everything that comes with it.
All of this wouldn't be so bad if it were not having a safety net. I have no where to fall. My parents are in worse situations than me...being housed and fed by others.
So if I fail, everything that I've worked for is ruined.
I'm in college, and since changing my major to general studies, I've been completely failing. I hate school, I HATE IT. I...HATE...IT. If I wouldn't be so looked down upon, I would've never returned after high school. I have memories that date back to 1st grade of myself never belonging, never understanding, and never happy. I never grasp anything when presented to me, and never understand what I read.
Math? Forget even attempting to teach me.
Science? Nope, sounds like gibberish.
History? One big story book I couldn't care less about.
I only ever kind of liked English...but not research.
I'm on academic probation this semester and if I don't do well, I won't receive financial aid...and will no longer be able to afford to go.
It seems like no matter how much I try...I fail at everything school related.
I wish I didn't have to go to school, but I do because that's the only way I can afford living on my own.
How can I succeed at something I avoid because of the worthlessness feelings that come with it? I'm worthless at school.
MY JOB DOESN'T PAY WELL AND MY MANAGERS HATE ME.
I don't know what else I can do, my smile is never enough. I'm always doing something wrong, get yelled at for the littlest, stupidest honeysuckle. (EX: hanging my keys on a tack in the wall???)
Customers like me...they've always liked me...but my managers? NOPE! I never feel like I'm needed there. I feel like I'm one big snowball of mistakes.
One of my managers loves my co-worker---He even has a picture of them two set as his desktop screensaver.
I've tried so hard to impress them...But I can't change who I am...I'm not outgoing, and I'm not loud...I'm have never been and never will be.
I'm so slow. My current job, and two others I've had in the past, my managers either hate(ed) me, or got me to do the easier task because I was too slow...too dumb for what they initially wanted me to do.
My pitiful brain hates me.
I'm in therapy.
I'm on drugs for sadness.
But I'm still sad.
I'm still dumb.
I'm failing at this game and I want to quit.
I hate the fact that I was born. I wasn't meant to be...
I can't do anything...
I can't pass community college,
I can't make up my mind,
I can't pay my bills,
I can't succeed at my job,
I can't make friends,
I just can't do life.
But I have to.
I'm talking about wishing I was never born...obviously I was, and now have no choice but to press forward...but it sucks...I don't want to, I want to quit.
When it rains, it pours, and it's been pouring a lot lately.
I'm 21, and have never been so stressed or unhappy before...and this time, it has nothing to do with my family or friend relationships.
It's my pure self.
I thought your 20's were supposed to be fun and exciting...full of new experiences, new people, careers, independence, traveling, etc...
But it's not for me.
I'm living in an apartment with a roommate, trying to get through college and work. I moved out on my own at 19. Since I turned 18, I've been responsible for all of my own bills, ALL of them; health insurance, car insurance, school, phone...and now that I have my own place; rent, and everything that comes with it.
All of this wouldn't be so bad if it were not having a safety net. I have no where to fall. My parents are in worse situations than me...being housed and fed by others.
So if I fail, everything that I've worked for is ruined.
I'm in college, and since changing my major to general studies, I've been completely failing. I hate school, I HATE IT. I...HATE...IT. If I wouldn't be so looked down upon, I would've never returned after high school. I have memories that date back to 1st grade of myself never belonging, never understanding, and never happy. I never grasp anything when presented to me, and never understand what I read.
Math? Forget even attempting to teach me.
Science? Nope, sounds like gibberish.
History? One big story book I couldn't care less about.
I only ever kind of liked English...but not research.
I'm on academic probation this semester and if I don't do well, I won't receive financial aid...and will no longer be able to afford to go.
It seems like no matter how much I try...I fail at everything school related.
I wish I didn't have to go to school, but I do because that's the only way I can afford living on my own.
How can I succeed at something I avoid because of the worthlessness feelings that come with it? I'm worthless at school.
MY JOB DOESN'T PAY WELL AND MY MANAGERS HATE ME.
I don't know what else I can do, my smile is never enough. I'm always doing something wrong, get yelled at for the littlest, stupidest honeysuckle. (EX: hanging my keys on a tack in the wall???)
Customers like me...they've always liked me...but my managers? NOPE! I never feel like I'm needed there. I feel like I'm one big snowball of mistakes.
One of my managers loves my co-worker---He even has a picture of them two set as his desktop screensaver.
I've tried so hard to impress them...But I can't change who I am...I'm not outgoing, and I'm not loud...I'm have never been and never will be.
I'm so slow. My current job, and two others I've had in the past, my managers either hate(ed) me, or got me to do the easier task because I was too slow...too dumb for what they initially wanted me to do.
My pitiful brain hates me.
I'm in therapy.
I'm on drugs for sadness.
But I'm still sad.
I'm still dumb.
I'm failing at this game and I want to quit.
I hate the fact that I was born. I wasn't meant to be...
I can't do anything...
I can't pass community college,
I can't make up my mind,
I can't pay my bills,
I can't succeed at my job,
I can't make friends,
I just can't do life.
But I have to.