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WallflowerGirl83
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I'm 33 years old and I feel like I'm a lot younger than my age. A lot of the time I connect with people who are younger than I am, mostly people in they're 20's. However now I'm talking to people who are older than me and they all think I'm younger than I actually am due to my appearance.
I feared to put this up for the longest time. I was SA by my father at a very young age. I'm not putting this up to make people feel sorry for me, to seek out attention. I'm doing this cause I hate bottling it in. I've been bottling this in for so long now cause I feel like a burden to everyone. People continue to tell me your not a burden, stop isolating yourself, talk to people, answer your e-mails and messages people send to you. I keep saying I'll do it, but I never do it cause I'm afraid to become a burden and I end up pushing people away. I know I suffer from PTSD and my therapist see's that I have aspects of Borderline. However I love making friends with people, I'm very expressive with how I feel, I'm not manipulative in any way and I don't abuse people with my words. I do get angry, it's mostly due to the fact how people abused me, judged me, picking on me through growing up, people's criticism gets to me. I know I suffer with low self esteem and I feel sorry for myself a lot of the time. I actually hate myself and often wonder why people even like me. I'm very emotional, I cry a lot, I feel people's emotions when they're sad and suffering. I love helping people and listening to they're problems. However now I'm so depressed.
My symptoms mostly include: mood swings, social anxiety and depression, anger when being judged, sensitive to critismn, fear of being alone, feeling misunderstood, feeling neglected, lonely, on and off I have feelings of self hate. There's times where I actually love who I am, than once I'm depressed I hate myself. Than I go back to loving myself and I love my life. People has seen me changed before. This is why sometimes I hate being close to people cause I fear once they get to know me and see all these things about me, they'll disappear and won't want to talk to me anymore. They'll simply give up and think "this girl is crazy" There was a time where I abused drugs but I'm clean now. This is why I look up to Kurt Cobain a lot. In a interview he mentioned how, "this world is cruel, people are not true." Sometimes I fear that I'm way too sensitive for my own good and I need to become a stronger person. I'm not sure if there's anyone else out there who can relate to how I'm feeling. I made a Tumblr not to long ago to express how I feel and I'm getting more followers. I'm also starting a blog cause I know my past is still continuing to haunt me, especially when I was in an abusive relationship for 3 in a half years. Yes I know it's over with now, but it's probably the reason I'm still having trouble trusting some people. I realized I have messages in my inbox and I promise I'll get back to everyone. The only thing I hope is that once this is up that nobody hates me and will think differently about me. I love a lot of people on this Forum and I come here cause I suffer with loneliness and I'm a loner. I came here to meet new friends. I have a few friends in my area, however a lot of them are moving away or going to college. Once things get better in therapy, I do plan on going to college. Right now though, I'm concentrating on myself cause I seriously need to start loving who I am as a person. And I also need to get back in the car again, cause I have a fear of driving due to the fact I was in two car accidents. Look I know this is a lot for everyone to take in right now, but I seriously needed to get this out.
Another thing I never mentioned is that I'm bisexual and I fear a lot of people will judge me due to that too.
I'm 33 years old and I feel like I'm a lot younger than my age. A lot of the time I connect with people who are younger than I am, mostly people in they're 20's. However now I'm talking to people who are older than me and they all think I'm younger than I actually am due to my appearance.
I feared to put this up for the longest time. I was SA by my father at a very young age. I'm not putting this up to make people feel sorry for me, to seek out attention. I'm doing this cause I hate bottling it in. I've been bottling this in for so long now cause I feel like a burden to everyone. People continue to tell me your not a burden, stop isolating yourself, talk to people, answer your e-mails and messages people send to you. I keep saying I'll do it, but I never do it cause I'm afraid to become a burden and I end up pushing people away. I know I suffer from PTSD and my therapist see's that I have aspects of Borderline. However I love making friends with people, I'm very expressive with how I feel, I'm not manipulative in any way and I don't abuse people with my words. I do get angry, it's mostly due to the fact how people abused me, judged me, picking on me through growing up, people's criticism gets to me. I know I suffer with low self esteem and I feel sorry for myself a lot of the time. I actually hate myself and often wonder why people even like me. I'm very emotional, I cry a lot, I feel people's emotions when they're sad and suffering. I love helping people and listening to they're problems. However now I'm so depressed.
My symptoms mostly include: mood swings, social anxiety and depression, anger when being judged, sensitive to critismn, fear of being alone, feeling misunderstood, feeling neglected, lonely, on and off I have feelings of self hate. There's times where I actually love who I am, than once I'm depressed I hate myself. Than I go back to loving myself and I love my life. People has seen me changed before. This is why sometimes I hate being close to people cause I fear once they get to know me and see all these things about me, they'll disappear and won't want to talk to me anymore. They'll simply give up and think "this girl is crazy" There was a time where I abused drugs but I'm clean now. This is why I look up to Kurt Cobain a lot. In a interview he mentioned how, "this world is cruel, people are not true." Sometimes I fear that I'm way too sensitive for my own good and I need to become a stronger person. I'm not sure if there's anyone else out there who can relate to how I'm feeling. I made a Tumblr not to long ago to express how I feel and I'm getting more followers. I'm also starting a blog cause I know my past is still continuing to haunt me, especially when I was in an abusive relationship for 3 in a half years. Yes I know it's over with now, but it's probably the reason I'm still having trouble trusting some people. I realized I have messages in my inbox and I promise I'll get back to everyone. The only thing I hope is that once this is up that nobody hates me and will think differently about me. I love a lot of people on this Forum and I come here cause I suffer with loneliness and I'm a loner. I came here to meet new friends. I have a few friends in my area, however a lot of them are moving away or going to college. Once things get better in therapy, I do plan on going to college. Right now though, I'm concentrating on myself cause I seriously need to start loving who I am as a person. And I also need to get back in the car again, cause I have a fear of driving due to the fact I was in two car accidents. Look I know this is a lot for everyone to take in right now, but I seriously needed to get this out.
Another thing I never mentioned is that I'm bisexual and I fear a lot of people will judge me due to that too.