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Friend seems to dislike me
#11
(05-13-2016, 07:35 AM)Paraiyar Wrote: Forget this person. They aren't really your friend and are not worth the unhappiness.

i like this statement. Smile

It can be very difficult to let go of something if that something is all you have.

So good luck on whatever you decide.
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#12
You believed she was your friend but she was not.

There comes a time when you have to realise that there is no friendship between you, only acquaintanceship.

Unfortunately (for whatever reason) a friendship will not happen in the way that you need and wish for.

I've been there, in a similar situation and there's not a thing that can be done about it so be nice and polite to her but look elsewhere for friendship.

Essentially, I would advise you not to waste anymore of your time on pursuing this idea that you can become good friends.

The truth can be a bitter pill to swallow but it is also said that the truth will set you free.
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(06-15-2016, 11:06 AM)LonesomeDay Wrote: You believed she was your friend but she was not.

There comes a time when you have to realise that there is no friendship between you, only acquaintanceship.

Unfortunately (for whatever reason) a friendship will not happen in the way that you need and wish for.

I've been there, in a similar situation and there's not a thing that can be done about it so be nice and polite to her but look elsewhere for friendship.

Essentially, I would advise you not to waste anymore of your time on pursuing this idea that you can become good friends.

The truth can be a bitter pill to swallow but it is also said that the truth will set you free.
What makes you say a friendship will not happen in the way I need or wish for? And why do you say she isn't a friend?
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(06-18-2016, 08:25 AM)jashley Wrote: What makes you say a friendship will not happen in the way I need or wish for? And why do you say she isn't a friend?

Does she invite you anywhere? Does she talk to you outside of church?
If the answer is no, she's not your friend.

Does she avoid you? Hug others and not you?
If the answer is yes, she is not your friend.


Seriously, take the hint. Worry about yourself, instead of what she is or isn't doing for you.
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(06-18-2016, 08:25 AM)jashley Wrote: What makes you say a friendship will not happen in the way I need or wish for? And why do you say she isn't a friend?


Jashley, I cannot be 100% sure but from the way you put it, this woman does not regard you as a friend - and isn't showing signs of letting you into her life in that way.

She seems to exclude you in her social life to a great extent.

Does she ever initiate conversation with you outside of church, want to get to know you and spend time with you?

Is she ever there for you?

Those are elements of friendship that go beyond acquaintanceship.

I understand how hurtful her behaviour is and how painful rejection feels. I've been there too.

It's time to step back and focus on yourself now in order to heal.

She knows where to find you if she wants to.
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#16
This person profit on you .I think you should leave them
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