Rodent said:
Assuming that you suffer from many of its symptoms, even while not being officially diagnosed, what aspects of it are causing you the worst troubles?
Well… I’m going to quote directly from Wiki here some of its symptoms that I think I have.
1. Lonely and/or unwanted self-perception. Avoidance of social interaction, because of feelings of inadequacy and/or feeling inferior, unworthy to others, despite having a strong desire for close relationships.
2. Hypersensitivity to criticism.
3. Self-imposed social isolation.
4. Use fantasy as a form of escapism, imagining things like being part of an affectionate relationship or simply anything else just to interrupt painful thoughts.
5. High self-consciousness and mistrust on others, they can still form relationships with others, but only if they believe they will not be rejected.
6. Low self-esteem and/or self-loathing, unable to identify traits within themselves that are considered positive within society.
7. Problems with occupational functioning
8. Self-critical about their problems relating to others.
9. Emotional distancing related to intimacy. Avoids physical contact because it has been associated with an unpleasant or painful stimulus.
1. I mainly act cold towards others, because I don’t want anyone to know how little’s going on in my life and my limited amount of interests. That makes me a naturally boring person and I'm sure nobody wants to be around individuals like me. I can't help but wish I could be in someone else's shoes though, it's not fun to see people having a good time.
2. I suck at defending myself, so even the smallest of criticisms make me cry like a baby inside and shuts me off for the rest of the day, with me imagining my troublesome future.
3. I really don’t like to go outside that much, because I always see lovebirds everywhere. My room’s been my whole world for about 4 years now; I’ve come in terms with its advantages and disadvantages of being inside almost all the time. So, despite complaining about why I don't have things that others have, I'm aware that I'm not in a position to do so.
4. My mind is often elsewhere to get me distracted from things I don’t like to see. Ironically, I sometimes imagine having affectionate girlfriends.
5. Growing up, my dad always said to me to find “good friends,” which to him were others that didn’t do illegal activities and that liked school. That’s obviously changed now that I’m an adult, so now, “good friends” to me are people that don’t mind my flaws that outweigh my strengths and that are open-minded too.
6. I’m chubby, like the internet, anime and video games. Enough said.
7. I'm an administrator in my dad's job (He handles a wood factory), I can handle the easy things, but can’t do the activities he does on a daily basis. If I can’t manage doing something that requires being inside the conformity of my house, then how will I elsewhere? College taught me that early when I dropped out.
8. I always get afraid when others ask me for help. I’m not very smart and I am physically weak, so whatever they ask for, there’s some guarantee of me being useless, except if it’s something small, like opening a jar or something.
9. I’ve never been involved in any physical intimacy, so I’m not sure if this applies to me, but growing up, I always had renal-insufficiency and there were sometimes when doctors had to insert a catheter through my penis. My sex organs have only been touched with medical intentions, it makes me very uncomfortable when anyone does it now, those “anyones” are still doctors, so who knows how I’ll react with a girl who’s into me, if that ever happens, of course.