So I'm not really sure what I intend to get out of this. I realize that I'm probably the 50,000th person to write a sad story on here and no one will read it or care. But I can at least get some things off my chest and vent if nothing else.
I'm a 41 year old single guy who has never been married. The question I get asked at least once a week is....why? The basic answer is I'm worthless and not worth being with. I've known ever since I was in high school that I would be alone. It's not a new revelation. I like to say I'm the "trifecta" - I'm short, fat and ugly. Needless to say, no woman alive is looking for a short, fat, ugly dude.
It's easier to accept these things when you are in your 20s. It's not that big of a deal to be single and a lot of people you know are alone to an extent. However, as time progresses, I have discovered that living with this is becoming harder. To society I am a pathetic loser. My life is essentially an embarrassment.
I can't really talk to anyone about this because I literally don't know a single other person who is alone. Everyone else I know is happily married and has a family. I know it's just something I have to live with, but it's becoming harder to shove my emotions back inside and bottle them up. I found this forum and thought posting on here might help a little.
I'm a 41 year old single guy who has never been married. The question I get asked at least once a week is....why? The basic answer is I'm worthless and not worth being with. I've known ever since I was in high school that I would be alone. It's not a new revelation. I like to say I'm the "trifecta" - I'm short, fat and ugly. Needless to say, no woman alive is looking for a short, fat, ugly dude.
It's easier to accept these things when you are in your 20s. It's not that big of a deal to be single and a lot of people you know are alone to an extent. However, as time progresses, I have discovered that living with this is becoming harder. To society I am a pathetic loser. My life is essentially an embarrassment.
I can't really talk to anyone about this because I literally don't know a single other person who is alone. Everyone else I know is happily married and has a family. I know it's just something I have to live with, but it's becoming harder to shove my emotions back inside and bottle them up. I found this forum and thought posting on here might help a little.