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I was wondering where everyone here meet there GF/BF, husband/wife?

In a bar, a club or at school? Are somewhere else?

Dose not matter whether or not if there an EX or you are still with them.

My first GF I meet at work. My second GF I meet at her house cos I went there cos I know my friend was there. She also was some one that I know from school but had not had anything to do with why at school.

Would be interesting to see where ppl meet there EX or current partners.

Then I well go to them placers :D lol
 
I met my ex at work, at a supermarket it was quite big. I'd seen him around and he'd always ask me questions and say hello whenever I was on my breaks, at first I tried to avoid him but it wasn't until I went to a party that I had an interest. One night as I was finishing work he came to see me, as I was going thru the checkout there he was standing there. We had a conversation and from there I started going around to his place, after we hooked up I never left and moved in. This relationship went on for 10 years and then I decided to leave him, things were pretty low at that time.

Another boyfriend I met while leaving a club to go home, I invited him in was only 17 at the time and we chatted after that we started seeing each other, I felt that he was a bit clingy as he was around 24/7 and broke the relationship up he was devastated and couldn't understand.
 
I met my husband at work. He was my boss for a few years. After my ex and I broke up, I locked my boss in the office and asked him if he wanted to become better friends. Here we are 20 years later.
 
At work, when i used to work around people.
At gatherings of friends, when i used to have friends.
Doing volunteer work, when i used to have hours that allowed that.
 
ya sleep i was serious..and I think a good few other couples have come out of here..there are some good men on these forums.. my bf included.

As for Bluey..you'll definitely find who you're looking for...not sure where though..maybe you already even know her. I think really nice relationships sometimes start with friendships and while youre single there is no one to be jealous if you have a ton of female friends..so maybe someone you talk to as a friend will turn out to be more than a friend. Just keep talking to people, and socialising, and building friendships, and being yourself. Good Luck in your seach and be sure to enjoy it...enjoy building friendships...and getting to know people while looking for a mate.

(dont mean to sound all-advice giving...just saying that I know you will find what youre looking for..cause you have a good heart and that's just the way life seems to work)

also i wonder where minus volunteered. lol.
 
One at a high school dance and another at a high school football game (both while I was in high school, obviously). None in College, and none since :(
 
jales said:

That's amazing and your so deserving of it as well :) Am genuinely really glad for you. I hope it works out for you, I really do.



jales said:
ya sleep i was serious..and I think a good few other couples have come out of here..there are some good men on these forums.. my bf included.

As for Bluey..you'll definitely find who you're looking for...not sure where though..maybe you already even know her. I think really nice relationships sometimes start with friendships and while youre single there is no one to be jealous if you have a ton of female friends..so maybe someone you talk to as a friend will turn out to be more than a friend. Just keep talking to people, and socialising, and building friendships, and being yourself. Good Luck in your seach and be sure to enjoy it...enjoy building friendships...and getting to know people while looking for a mate.

(dont mean to sound all-advice giving...just saying that I know you will find what youre looking for..cause you have a good heart and that's just the way life seems to work)

also i wonder where minus volunteered. lol.

You have said a lot of true things in the last few days and I have read all your posts. Very good advice I thought and this one is no different.

I really do hope your right I really really really do hope you are.

But you know I have spent so much time being single now it feels like it well always be like this. Its a sad thing but I don't let it get to me so much anymore.

I do keep telling my self that I never know whats round the corner. But as I the older I get the moor I seem to struggle to click with girls. They seem to have there world and that world dose not seem to have any place for me.

Another thing is most ppl seemed to have meet there partner at work or school. I don't have ether of them things in my life :( No wonder am still alone.
 
I met the ex at a club in Mexico..actually it was supposed to be a one night stand, except he wouldn't leave me alone so I finally relented and went out on an official date with him and the rest is history. We joked that it was a 7 year one night stand. Now looking back, I really shouldn't have drank so much that night. **** open bars. :rolleyes:
 
penny143 said:
I met the ex at a club in Mexico..actually it was supposed to be a one night stand, except he wouldn't leave me alone so I finally relented and went out on an official date with him and the rest is history. We joked that it was a 7 year one night stand. Now looking back, I really shouldn't have drank so much that night. **** open bars. :rolleyes:

Ye but just look at them socks lol :p

Good to see you tho :)
 
The last one I met at a party... new years eve to be precise. It wasn't a terribly good omen tho, as it turned out we had little in common.
 
Steel said:
The last one I met at a party... new years eve to be precise. It wasn't a terribly good omen tho, as it turned out we had little in common.

My mum and dad have nothing in common and yesterday they celebrated there 34th wedding anniversary. I don't think having things in common is what makes it work.
 

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