I just wanted to share. I have finally accepted myself the way I am. All of my life I have struggled with not fitting, feeling awkward and uncomfortable in social situations, anxiety of meeting new people, I hated going out. Now that I'm in my 30s and have had a lot of time to reflect on myself and the past, I realize it is not my fault. I am a very sensitive person, I tend to really feel what other people are feeling. I'm ultra aware of my surroundings and those in it. It overwhelms me to be in large groups or to be with new people. I used to wonder what was wrong with me, I would over act when in social situations, always trying to be the funny one or the one always catering on others to make up for my awkwardness. But in reality when I'm around others I feel drained and tired.
Now I realize I just like to be alone, I feel more happy when I'm alone. I've accepted this about myself and it's okay. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to go out and socialize. Now when people ask me to go out, I just say no thanks and have no guilt. I just want others to know, if you have social anxiety and feel much better by yourself, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a special person who has the ability to live independently and can be happy within yourself.
Now I realize I just like to be alone, I feel more happy when I'm alone. I've accepted this about myself and it's okay. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to go out and socialize. Now when people ask me to go out, I just say no thanks and have no guilt. I just want others to know, if you have social anxiety and feel much better by yourself, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a special person who has the ability to live independently and can be happy within yourself.