Is it hard for you to say no?

Sometimes, I do find it hard to say no. It depends on the situation and who is asking for my help

It depends, but usually I like to stand my ground whenever possible.

NO. no. NO!

I've been accussed of being a Codi.
I say no all the time, but I just loved her to **** much.lol

Usually yes to nice people unless I have no time.

I say yes unless it's something that will hurt someone else. Especially when it comes to my family. I'm a softy, lol, what can I say? Shhh...don't tell anyone.

i do find it very difficult/uncomfortable to refuse requests for help...
worried about people getting upset/pissed off...
my life is much more difficult because i often "volunteer" myself for all sorts of weird things like that :\

I have a problem saying no to people whom I like and whose opinion I value. I do say no anyway if I really really have no time but it bothers me afterwards.

Say yes or no?

An interesting question..and often it depends on whom I am talking to or who is asking. Those I care for I would always say yes for...they are the ones I really want to help...but even those I don't know I would help...can't help it and sometimes it can actually be at the detriment of me. This is one thing that I find easy to do at work...can say no all day if I want to...but personally can be tricky.

I will say no, but not if someone has a genuine need of me.

I won't say no if I am helping someone that I feel won't bother me in the end. My family gets the indefinite yes though.

EveWasFramed said:

I say yes unless it's something that will hurt someone else. Especially when it comes to my family. I'm a softy, lol, what can I say? Shhh...don't tell anyone.

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Hm, do I say yes or no to that request?

zraskolnikov said:

EveWasFramed said:

I say yes unless it's something that will hurt someone else. Especially when it comes to my family. I'm a softy, lol, what can I say? Shhh...don't tell anyone.

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Hm, do I say yes or no to that request?

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Ha! Ever the smartass!

I still luve ya, Z. Probably.

It's interesting. Just moments ago, my boss gave me another one of those "it's up to you" scenarios. My usual response is "I don't care. Whatever you prefer."

I... I feel like I need to put my foot down more about stuff. I know that when I say "I don't care" that this isn't something I'm sincere about. Of my options, usually there's definitely one I prefer to another.

I do have a hard time saying no. All of my life I've tried to be a nice guy.

Let a girl I'm not interested in "dating" ask me out on a date. I'll say something like "I'll consider it..." and hope that enough time passes to where she loses interest or something.


When there's a conflict, and I have to weigh priorities, I can say no (with an apology to accommodate it ).

Steel said:

I will say no, but not if someone has a genuine need of me.

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Depends on the situation. lol.
If they really need me I might not say no and I might not say yes.
I am sure some guys might agree on this one with me:
If you have a hottie at your place and the mood is right.....it takes a lot to say no. lmao. Ok, I am bad.

i say yes to being led alot. but lately ive figured out how to be my own yes-man
yea for me!!!!!!1

I usually say whatever they want me to say.