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IceCastles
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Does anyone have this problem as well?
I'm constantly being told how tired or unwell I look. Even on days that I am well-rested, feel great and confident, have makeup on, dressed up...I get these comments on how my face looks so tired and unwell.
I feel like that's the best I can do, yet I keep getting these comments especially from colleagues. I seem to get it more when I'm actually feeling great and am dressed up. Do you think people are just doing this to encourage me to not wear makeup or dress up?
Why do people do this?
If my colleagues tell me that I'm so worn-out looking; I would love to go home and take a nap or even take weeks off work if possible because of their "concern for my tiredness" but my colleagues would not like that.
I will look in the mirror and think I look great or as best as I can; then I start wondering if I am really sick or look sick or why people keep saying this to me.
I can't see what they seem to see. The people that I'm close to don't make these comments.
What could this mean? Isn't this annoying? I find this to be so uncalled for and annoying to be reminded every few days!!!
I'm constantly being told how tired or unwell I look. Even on days that I am well-rested, feel great and confident, have makeup on, dressed up...I get these comments on how my face looks so tired and unwell.
I feel like that's the best I can do, yet I keep getting these comments especially from colleagues. I seem to get it more when I'm actually feeling great and am dressed up. Do you think people are just doing this to encourage me to not wear makeup or dress up?
Why do people do this?
If my colleagues tell me that I'm so worn-out looking; I would love to go home and take a nap or even take weeks off work if possible because of their "concern for my tiredness" but my colleagues would not like that.
I will look in the mirror and think I look great or as best as I can; then I start wondering if I am really sick or look sick or why people keep saying this to me.
I can't see what they seem to see. The people that I'm close to don't make these comments.
What could this mean? Isn't this annoying? I find this to be so uncalled for and annoying to be reminded every few days!!!