Restless soul
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So I have had this issue for some time. I am a guy if you do not know. I created and and replied in many threads.
So my Issue is and as I think it definitely relates to poor self -esteem. and poor self image. Is that whenever someone would say you look like so and so. Be it someone famous. And recently a friend. An immediate sense of dread would come over me. I start to not feel like myself. I start questioning my looks. If someone says I look like someone I
Never heard of I would be affraid to look them up in the chance they are ugly or I wouldn't think they look anything like me . People even have told me I am a good looking guy. And I look younger than I do. And positive things like that.
But as soon as I hear I look like someone I don't think I look remotely like. I throws me into some takespin. I just would rather not hear it ever. I used to hate hearing I looked like my brothers but this is more logical to me and one brother is even comsidered handsome. So that is not as odd. I am wondering if anyone else has similar issues. Any experts or someone with some insight into what would cause this intense reaction each time I get this
Thanks.
So my Issue is and as I think it definitely relates to poor self -esteem. and poor self image. Is that whenever someone would say you look like so and so. Be it someone famous. And recently a friend. An immediate sense of dread would come over me. I start to not feel like myself. I start questioning my looks. If someone says I look like someone I
Never heard of I would be affraid to look them up in the chance they are ugly or I wouldn't think they look anything like me . People even have told me I am a good looking guy. And I look younger than I do. And positive things like that.
But as soon as I hear I look like someone I don't think I look remotely like. I throws me into some takespin. I just would rather not hear it ever. I used to hate hearing I looked like my brothers but this is more logical to me and one brother is even comsidered handsome. So that is not as odd. I am wondering if anyone else has similar issues. Any experts or someone with some insight into what would cause this intense reaction each time I get this
Thanks.