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Another rude craigslist reply -Well you guys ne the judge
#21
Looks are not as important as people are conditioned to think"

I will have to think about that one. Interesting
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#22
Try to put this person behind you my friend and think nothing more of it. Remember, even the most beautiful person gets criticised and insulted about their appearance. Nobody is an exception in this life unfortunately, but the knowledge can help things feel less personal.
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#23
I will sure try. But as you all know being alone is what makes
Us even more susceptible to these things
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#24
But isn't that offset by the cute girl you mentioned in your last post ' head cupped in hands said to her friend " hasn't Mike got a nice smile" to which she replied "Yes" so looks like people are individual and perceived in that way...so on the upside you have "hasn''t Mike got a nice smile" on the downside you have "you look scary" so individuals perceive you differently and taking both of them into account and applying a mathematical formula to the equation you come out average...and average ain't such a bad place to be.
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#25
(11-08-2016, 09:33 AM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But isn't that offset by the cute girl you mentioned in your last post ' head cupped in hands said to her friend " hasn't Mike got a nice smile" to which she replied "Yes"  so looks like people are individual and perceived in that way...so on the upside you have "hasn''t Mike got a nice smile" on the downside you have "you look scary" so individuals perceive you differently and taking both of them into account and applying a mathematical formula to the equation you come out average...and average ain't such a bad place to be, although of course I have no first hand experience of that myself being blessed with all natures bounty of good looks and charisma.
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#26
(11-08-2016, 09:44 AM)sothatwasmylife Wrote:
(11-08-2016, 09:33 AM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But isn't that offset by the cute girl you mentioned in your last post ' head cupped in hands said to her friend " hasn't Mike got a nice smile" to which she replied "Yes"  so looks like people are individual and perceived in that way...so on the upside you have "hasn''t Mike got a nice smile" on the downside you have "you look scary" so individuals perceive you differently and taking both of them into account and applying a mathematical formula to the equation you come out average...and average ain't such a bad place to be, although of course I have no first hand experience of that myself being blessed with all natures bounty of good looks and charisma.

What? Who is not mike? I am not. That wasnt my post
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#27
Anyway, I do get your point. I do get compliments offline on various things. Eyes. Or whatver. Now does that offset what one woman said who I havent seen? No, not really. Because if you did take a look at previous threads that I made. They all follow a similar theme. Whether its someone thinking I look like someone else. You just did. It thinking I was someone from another thread. But thats an easy mistake online.

But that is what happens when something I precieve as rude or insensitive it Outweighs any positive things I might have heard prior. That is the downside to a weak self-esteem. Self-image. Identity. Fragile ego. You pick one. I suffer from them all.
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#28
So...You tell me what is the solution to that??
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#29
(11-08-2016, 09:33 AM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But isn't that offset by the cute girl you mentioned in your last post ' head cupped in hands said to her friend " hasn't Mike got a nice smile" to which she replied "Yes" so looks like people are individual and perceived in that way...so on the upside you have "hasn''t Mike got a nice smile" on the downside you have "you look scary" so individuals perceive you differently and taking both of them into account and applying a mathematical formula to the equation you come out average...and average ain't such a bad place to be.

That was Alexander_Santos, not Restless soul
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"Being young and dipped in folly, I fell in love with melancholy"
-Edgar A. Poe
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#30
Thanks for keeping track, dark 😀
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