When a girl did this stuff do you think it's bad

Alexander_santos · Nov 14, 2016

So on Monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then today In class i heard her telling one of her friend " i don't know why he (me) looks at me

TheRealCallie · Nov 14, 2016

Well it does sound like you look at her a lot....that might be why she said it.

Alexander_santos · Nov 14, 2016

So you think she doesn't like me then if she said it

TheRealCallie · Nov 14, 2016

There's only one way to know....ask her, not us.

TheSkaFish · Nov 14, 2016

Just looking at someone won't get you anywhere. Even worse, she could see it as weird. The only thing you can do is try to say something.

Sci-Fi · Nov 15, 2016

You should ask her the same thing she asked her friend but switch the roles. Why does she keep looking at you. Could be worse though, she could have called you out on it in front of everyone. Have had that and seen that happen where a person keeps staring at another person then accuse them of always staring at them.

sothatwasmylife · Nov 15, 2016

Maybe she See's you as a reflection of herself and poises the question to her friend "I don't know why he looks at me" as a means of getting her friends validation .it's a possibility maybe you should put this to her.

sothatwasmylife · Nov 15, 2016

sothatwasmylife said:
Maybe she See's you as a reflection of herself and poises the question to her friend "I don't know why he looks at me" as a means of getting her friends validation .it's a possibility maybe you should put this to her. or maybe you could bypass that particular route and simply tell her you think she's attractive/pretty/lovely thus giving her direct validation

TheRealCallie · Nov 15, 2016

^^ You do know there's an edit button, right?

sothatwasmylife · Nov 16, 2016

Yep but I like to annoy the 'pedagogues

sothatwasmylife · Nov 16, 2016

sothatwasmylife said:
Yep but It doesn't work on my device I have to use the reply button but I guess it serves the same function

9006 · Nov 16, 2016

You seem to spend a lot of time staring at... stuff. Maybe you're staring at her unintentially or something. If she got a restraining order that would be bad, her telling her mate, isn't.

If she confronts you just say you like her, or that you spend your days looking at honeysuckle, or do nothing, whichever you prefer.

sothatwasmylife · Nov 16, 2016

sothatwasmylife said:
Yep but I like to annoy the 'pedagogues

The edit doesn't work on my device reply seems to substitute but now I'm not so sure

sothatwasmylife · Nov 16, 2016

9006 said:
You seem to spend a lot of time staring at... stuff. Maybe you're staring at her unintentially or something. If she got a restraining order that would be bad, her telling her mate, isn't.

If she confronts you just say you like her, or that you spend your days looking at honeysuckle, or do nothing, whichever you prefer.

"Spend my days looking at honeysuckle"

that ain't going to work ☺

sothatwasmylife · Nov 16, 2016

sothatwasmylife said:
Yep but I like to annoy the 'pedagogues

Nope cos I couldn't edit this .

Meaw · Nov 20, 2016

Tip number 1: Stop with the staring, geesh.
Tip number 2: Ask her or let it go.
Tip number 3: Be okay with whatever she says if you'd choose to ask her.
Tip number 4: Another post like all the others like this one on the forum ain't gonna give you a magical answer about it.

Alexander_santos · Oct 30, 2017

TheRealCallie said:
Well it does sound like you look at her a lot....that might be why she said it.

yeah but now that i graduated from school i havent seen her
but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so maybe she hide behind him.

TheRealCallie · Oct 30, 2017

Alexander_santos said:
TheRealCallie said:

Well it does sound like you look at her a lot....that might be why she said it.

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yeah but now that i graduated from school i havent seen her
but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so maybe she hide behind him.

Wait, so you don't know that she was even there, you are just assuming she was because a guy was looking at you? That seems a bit odd and obsessive.

VanillaCreme · Oct 30, 2017

Alexander_santos said:
TheRealCallie said:

Well it does sound like you look at her a lot....that might be why she said it.

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yeah but now that i graduated from school i havent seen her
but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so maybe she hide behind him.

You're still staring at someone a year later?

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