I am sure some of you guys know the moment when she says "how about we just stay friends" and then you agree to it and eat our heart out for months, during which, you are hoping she will see something else in you.
Well , today I got a call from a girl who has been seeing me for a while (not the dumb one, a nice one) and she told me that she got back with her ex, but since I'm such a good man and it hurts her to loose me, she is hoping we can be friends.
Anyway, at first I was going to say "yeah sure why not" but then had some flash-backs of bad memories which made me change my mind, So it old her politely as I can, that I have to decline because from my experience it never ends well for me, and I also wish her the best of luck with the guy.
I'm very happy and proud with the way I acted, I have to care about myself more than I care about her, I've placed myself first, finally.
sorry about the blab guys, probably bored you but I'm just happy that at least on that front I've changed, I will no longer be trampled over !
Well , today I got a call from a girl who has been seeing me for a while (not the dumb one, a nice one) and she told me that she got back with her ex, but since I'm such a good man and it hurts her to loose me, she is hoping we can be friends.
Anyway, at first I was going to say "yeah sure why not" but then had some flash-backs of bad memories which made me change my mind, So it old her politely as I can, that I have to decline because from my experience it never ends well for me, and I also wish her the best of luck with the guy.
I'm very happy and proud with the way I acted, I have to care about myself more than I care about her, I've placed myself first, finally.
sorry about the blab guys, probably bored you but I'm just happy that at least on that front I've changed, I will no longer be trampled over !