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Questions for the Women
#11
Well, for me the dating scene has pretty much been over for the past 12 years, but I do remember what I liked in a guy on a date. Well groomed is definitely a plus. I like a guy to look and smell clean.

Personality is a big thing too. I love to laugh and need someone who can make me smile. I love to talk about likes and dislikes. I find a good old fashioned game of 20 questions (in a sense of course) really helps to find out more about someone. If they don't like alot of the things I like, then it's a red flag for me. They really do have to want to go camping and fishing to make me look any further at this. He also has to know how to cook. Women love a good cook and someone who likes to dole out the romance (flowers, compliments, open doors (duh), be a gentleman). Of course, every woman is different and I'm definitely on the odd side. But, being yourself is all you need to be. That, and don't be so eager to get that kiss or hop in bed (it's a real turn-off).
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#12
okay...Nalee, let says you're on the first date with a guy and lets say he notice your pentagram...lol
But he's open minded and not to make quick judgements of wheather ur a good witch or a bad witch.lmao.
So how would he go about decifering if Ur his twin soulmate without you thinking he's a loon or you casting a
spell on him. I guess if you like him...he'd be in a trance and won't remember nutting in the morning.lol
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#13
Lonesome Crow Wrote:okay...Nalee, let says you're on the first date with a guy and lets say he notice your pentagram...lol
But he's open minded and not to make quick judgements of wheather ur a good witch or a bad witch.lmao.

RFLMAO!!! Your a funny guy! I don't wear pentagrams...lol I would if the mood struck me though Smile My daughter bought me a nice one that I keep in view. I love a lot of things about the celtic pagan religion and wicca. It's a very beautiful and respectful spirituality that recognizes the divine feminine and male aspects and also incoporates respect for nature, the earth and the cycles of life. Any spiritual ceremonies I do is for myself and I don't belive in putting spells on people....lol You should never manipulate another person. EVER.


Quote:So how would he go about decifering if Ur his twin soulmate without you thinking he's a loon or you casting a
spell on him.
How would he know if I was his soulmate? He would know that intuitively. It's a connection- a knowing, a deep feeling. Things fall into place. I think that person recognizes you on a deep level.
Maybe it's like, looking into your own eyes when you look into hers.
The deep calls unto the deep and like attracts like. At least that's how I imagine it to be. : )

I think soul mates are very much alike and they have a purpose for being together. They help each other become better people : )
They have common goals and interests. They are best friends and lovers.

Quote:I guess if you like him...he'd be in a trance and won't remember nutting in the morning.lol

LOL!!!! I hope I'm not THAT boring that he wouldn't remember anything in the morning...lol!!
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#14
SO where do all the depressed girls with no standards hang out at?
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#15
I live with three women...from three different generations. I get enough opinions and info from them...lol
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#16
Naleena Wrote:Have you thought about making some positive stories? Maybe go out and try new things. Visit some place thats interesting. Make memories! : )
That is the main problem. In my life, whatever I did .... it was doomed in the end. Had a lot of hobbies back days but all of them were rather crippy rather crappy. Was in lots of places that was interesting for me but wouldn't be to her.

So, may I ask you ? If you would talk to me what stories do u want to hear ? where should I go/do to earn girl attention ? What do you like the most ? I bet you dated with a lot of guys and they told you planty of stories, so what/about what stories you like more than others.
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#17
Why is it that most women fall for the outlaw, badboy, cares more about how their hair looks than your feelings type guys? Knowing you will be cast aside when a new (toy) comes along. I see these guys treat a woman like shit and then watch the woman cry like a baby when she is cast aside.
Only then will she "settle" for a guy like most of us here, the loving, caring, want to spoil you but not too pleasing to the eyes type.

Why are we always last when you say we offer what you want?Sad

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Reality is over rated.
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#18
Sorry. I guess I killed this thread.Sad

It's just that I see so many wonderful women fall for and stay with the most horrible men.
It hurts to see this because I think all women should be respected as a person and not something a man owns.

Why would the woman be upset if a guy like that left her?
Reality is over rated.
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#19
SunWeb Wrote:So, may I ask you ? If you would talk to me what stories do u want to hear ?

Well, if I remeber correctly, your Asian. If you wren't born here, then I would love to hear about your country and how you lived. I did date an Asian man for a while and he was from Lao. He would tell me about his country and the dangers he faced and it was very interesting.

Quote:where should I go/do to earn girl attention ?
To earn attention? I'm not quite sure I understand the question. Maybe you could rephrase it?

Quote:What do you like the most ? I bet you dated with a lot of guys and they told you planty of stories, so what/about what stories you like more than others.
I like stories that are real and meaningful. Everyone is interesting and has a story to tell as far as I am concerend but, I am different. I don't need to hear things to impress me, I just like hearing things that are real. And you know, SunWeb, sometimes it takes a good listener and someone who can ask questions to draw that out of someone. If you ever find yourself in a place where you don't know what to do, start asking questions! People love to talk about themselves.

This may not have been helpful...lol I tell you what. Will you go on a chat date with me? I never ask men on dates, not even chat dates soooo..consider this a one of a kind offer from me...lol You can practice your social skills of talking and I can ask you questions and give you feedback about what you tell me. We can talk for about an hour if you have the time. You will be surprised how easy it will be Smile
Let me know, ok?
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#20
Hmm i can possibly help answer a bit of that one as i've had my share of bad boys

But i've always left them once i've woken up
But i still hold a torch for many of them

We fall for them because certain ones of us are attracted to the magnatism and spontinaity, but mainly because we want to be the ones to tame them. to some women that is the ultimate ego boost, to know that many others women have been here but 'He's mine now' and 'I'll be able to keep him/ tame him'
How absoultely ridiculous....but very true
You'll often find that the bad boys are narcissistic/ psychopathic etc (trust me i know) and this makes them incredibly charming and clever, and manipulative and controlling but you don't find out the 2nd bit until you are trapped

I'm ranting
lol

The big no-no's for me now from men are
-lack self confidence (i'm not here to fix you)
-no drive (i'm not here to support you)
-sit and moan about life without trying to do anything
-not interested in getting to know me,
-just want arm candy/ ego boost

it's like therapy this place lmao x
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