Missingthesun
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What is it with mothers and the ability to do this in an instant...
I met a foreign guy while on vacation, we hit it off and he asked me to come back and visit. Completely out of character for me but I am going. Yes maybe he does want a green card, but I believe it is also possible that he actually likes me! I avoided telling my Mom I was going and have just been looking forward to a fun trip. But of course she finds out...
...and proceeds to kill my self esteem with thinly veiled comments that imply there could be no other reason for him to like me other than the green card. I was so looking forward to this trip and now I'm in tears and not wanting to go at all.
Why do your parents have such ability to destroy you in a heartbeat? I'm in no danger of marrying this guy or anything. I just wanted to have a nice fun trip and now I'm not sure I can.
I met a foreign guy while on vacation, we hit it off and he asked me to come back and visit. Completely out of character for me but I am going. Yes maybe he does want a green card, but I believe it is also possible that he actually likes me! I avoided telling my Mom I was going and have just been looking forward to a fun trip. But of course she finds out...
...and proceeds to kill my self esteem with thinly veiled comments that imply there could be no other reason for him to like me other than the green card. I was so looking forward to this trip and now I'm in tears and not wanting to go at all.
Why do your parents have such ability to destroy you in a heartbeat? I'm in no danger of marrying this guy or anything. I just wanted to have a nice fun trip and now I'm not sure I can.