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Mom is killing my self esteem
#11
Have fun, let us know how it went!
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#12
I'm fairly certain my mother is possessed by Satan and has been since before my birth onto this planet. If there's any way she can cause me doubt, pain, loss, or embarrassment, that's a win for her.

She may need an exorcism. I just stay away.
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#13
It is so funny, I was always the good kid in the family and never experienced the not so nice, judgmental person I'm seeing now. I know now what my sister and nephew have been through all their lives.

Having a nice time but the evenings are looonnneeelllyyyy. My friend works till 11 pm and I haven't made other friends here this time, except for a really fun lady who I'll work with at her soup kitchen on Sunday. Headed to salsa lessons tonight to see if I can meet anyone.

Bleed_the_freak and anyone else with horrible abusive parents....I'm sending you all a hug. Some people should just be allowed to raise kids
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#14
Good to hear you're having fun hon!

And also good to hear you've been able to "brush" off the critique, and ae enjoying your time there!
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#15
What a rollercoaster. First the angst of whether to go at all, and then the guy I visited gives me the hot and cold. One day we are having great conversation and a real connection, and the next day he completely disengages and spends hours looking at soccer videos on his phone, leaving me bored to tears. Sometimes I really don't understand men at all.
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#16
(03-14-2017, 11:28 PM)Missingthesun Wrote: What a rollercoaster.  First the angst of whether to go at all, and then the guy I visited gives me the hot and cold.  One day we are having great conversation and a real connection, and the next day he completely disengages and spends hours looking at soccer videos on his phone, leaving me bored to tears.  Sometimes I really don't understand men at all.

Hard to tell what's going through his head, you were thinking it was a greencard thing yourself, and you knew that wasn't going to happen just like that. I do hope you've had a geat time overall, that is what counts most!
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#17
(03-14-2017, 11:28 PM)Missingthesun Wrote: What a rollercoaster.  First the angst of whether to go at all, and then the guy I visited gives me the hot and cold.  One day we are having great conversation and a real connection, and the next day he completely disengages and spends hours looking at soccer videos on his phone, leaving me bored to tears.  Sometimes I really don't understand men at all.

Sorry to hear this. I've got the same issue with women a lot of the time. Hope we both get a happy resolution with this.
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#18
Missingthesun - I am glad for the good times, and about the boring times, if you have your doubts about the long term quality of the happiness, don't go into a relationship X)
Are you sure we're on the right way, Yoda?
Off course, we are.

The snow angel was imperfect but so is everyone. It was there, and that is what matters. Maybe someone would see it, and smile.
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#19
Ugh. Women.
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#20
Believe it's a good thing that you went. Either way it was a life experience and you can look back on it one day and laugh about the entire situation. Just be happy that you went, made your own decision about something and not allow you're mother to upset you. If nothing ends up working out in the end, at least you went, traveled and in the end you can learn something more about yourself. =)
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