Hello everyone i have a big issue in my life. I am 27 year old but being very introvert and have lived in different countries due to familly issuees i never could kept a group of friend for a long time. I never had something like a best friend with whom to share great experiences. So now i think it is time to start life anew find people to spend good time with and more important having a relation. But i realised something. Most people nowadays, especially due to social medias, tend to share their photos and videos of important events in their lives. However i dont have any photos even for my birthday i didnt had parties. So i am afraid to look weird like someone comming from nowhere. I feel like a may even look suspect.
Since there are many stories of people having social problems, no friends at all and achieved to change, how did they do to hide the lack of social life they used to have or are they honest about it? Sometimes i think about inventing things to make my life more seems more exiting but after that i tell myself that it is no use and i am affraid to get caught in a circle of lies and end up living a fake life. However how to deal with the fact that i lack many stories to tell when everyone is telling memories of his teen ages i feel like an idiot.
What are you advice guys?
Thanks!
Since there are many stories of people having social problems, no friends at all and achieved to change, how did they do to hide the lack of social life they used to have or are they honest about it? Sometimes i think about inventing things to make my life more seems more exiting but after that i tell myself that it is no use and i am affraid to get caught in a circle of lies and end up living a fake life. However how to deal with the fact that i lack many stories to tell when everyone is telling memories of his teen ages i feel like an idiot.
What are you advice guys?
Thanks!