Hello. Lately i've been thinking about some things , for job this time. Not really sure if it's a big deal or not , but i will share it here.
I was out from my job for some time , because i had reasons to quit.
Now , im gonna return very soon and this time i want things to work better than they were , BUT there is something that bother me and i can't seem to understand why im a little concerned and worried. Will i get more people there and maybe a girl which i can make a connection with later? Yes i can and i will try , but what if it doesn't work as i want to ?
And with close buddies there - i want things to workout between me and my partners in job , but it seem i have some barrier in my mind that im a bit distant from them , just because i don't trust everyone and i don't want people who talk behind my back to be fake friends in there. I really want to get close to at least a few people and to be friends in a way that was in school(not necesarily out of the job , but in there , and if someone is willing for more than job-partner just at work , i'll be glad to have a new friend!
) Aside from that , i want to be helpful and i will try my best , but sometimes when i get alone i start to doubt my work with questions like Äm i good enough", am i doing everything well? Most of the time yes , but this negative self talk is not helping me go further!
Do you have some advice , and am i the only one who is having a hard time right from the beginning when i go there? Maybe i should learn possitive affirmations or something like that?
I was out from my job for some time , because i had reasons to quit.
Now , im gonna return very soon and this time i want things to work better than they were , BUT there is something that bother me and i can't seem to understand why im a little concerned and worried. Will i get more people there and maybe a girl which i can make a connection with later? Yes i can and i will try , but what if it doesn't work as i want to ?
And with close buddies there - i want things to workout between me and my partners in job , but it seem i have some barrier in my mind that im a bit distant from them , just because i don't trust everyone and i don't want people who talk behind my back to be fake friends in there. I really want to get close to at least a few people and to be friends in a way that was in school(not necesarily out of the job , but in there , and if someone is willing for more than job-partner just at work , i'll be glad to have a new friend!
) Aside from that , i want to be helpful and i will try my best , but sometimes when i get alone i start to doubt my work with questions like Äm i good enough", am i doing everything well? Most of the time yes , but this negative self talk is not helping me go further!Do you have some advice , and am i the only one who is having a hard time right from the beginning when i go there? Maybe i should learn possitive affirmations or something like that?
