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This isn't me but happened to a relative of mine.
How ridiculous for that 'friend' to think that she would respond and they could easily pick up where they left off!
This triggered me because I was recently ghosted...I know for a fact that I did nothing wrong. I was kind, giving, generous as possible because I wanted to make it work. She obviously didn't care for me because once she got a car, she started meeting new people and now is ignoring me. We last left on good terms...she had dinner at my house, we were laughing, kids were playing, I gave her kids gifts etc. (it was for a holiday)...and now, nothing. Gone.
I am being the very best that I can be..I have done a lot of self-reflection on what I could be doing wrong. I am honestly am very conscious of what I say and do my best to be generous. Sometimes, it can feel like I'm walking on eggshells...I just to be my true self but people are so sensitive and seem to cut others so easily...that's why I do my best to be careful of what I say and do because I don't want to offend or hurt others.
Then I get the posts here that are questioning me that maybe I'm selfish or maybe have done something to deserve it? How much more hurt can I take? Is it possible that other people just are selfish and disregard others' feelings such as myself? I know I didn't do anything wrong. I dare her to give a list of things I've done wrong and she will have nothing to say.
I know people who have shouted directly at their friends, calling them names etc, have had numerous fights, but in the end they work it out and their friendships are stronger than ever.
Mine just sit on a very superficial level and die.
I'm so bitter now right.
I'm invisible and one of the people that no one cares about.
How ridiculous for that 'friend' to think that she would respond and they could easily pick up where they left off!
This triggered me because I was recently ghosted...I know for a fact that I did nothing wrong. I was kind, giving, generous as possible because I wanted to make it work. She obviously didn't care for me because once she got a car, she started meeting new people and now is ignoring me. We last left on good terms...she had dinner at my house, we were laughing, kids were playing, I gave her kids gifts etc. (it was for a holiday)...and now, nothing. Gone.
I am being the very best that I can be..I have done a lot of self-reflection on what I could be doing wrong. I am honestly am very conscious of what I say and do my best to be generous. Sometimes, it can feel like I'm walking on eggshells...I just to be my true self but people are so sensitive and seem to cut others so easily...that's why I do my best to be careful of what I say and do because I don't want to offend or hurt others.
Then I get the posts here that are questioning me that maybe I'm selfish or maybe have done something to deserve it? How much more hurt can I take? Is it possible that other people just are selfish and disregard others' feelings such as myself? I know I didn't do anything wrong. I dare her to give a list of things I've done wrong and she will have nothing to say.
I know people who have shouted directly at their friends, calling them names etc, have had numerous fights, but in the end they work it out and their friendships are stronger than ever.
Mine just sit on a very superficial level and die.
I'm so bitter now right.
I'm invisible and one of the people that no one cares about.