Dear-_-Tragedy
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Recently I have had a sudden influx of female irl friends. It has been a bit surreal to be honest. It has done wonders to my depression which is all but gone now. Trouble is, after my last experience with having a girl-friend, I am a bit anxious. I am desperate about finding a companion/relationship/any kind of female intimacy. I don't want to screw it up like last time, walking the invisible line that is the 'Friend Zone' (I hate the phrase too) .
Obviously I am desperate and I also would much prefer being friend zoned than have no female friends. However, there comes a point when a man has to do what he has to do. Eventually I know I'm going to confess my feelings and make a move and eventually my anxiety tells me that it won't end well for me; they will never speak to me again. The whole thing has been a surreal c*** tease and I am trying to cope with the anxiety. My friends are just calling me a player and laughing about how I suddenly have female friends. So they aren't much help.
The usual thoughts on this though is to be cool, calm and collected and let them express their desire (if there is any). Any help would be much appreciated because I'm tired of these women randomly entering and leaving my life like some mystical ray of sunshine, only for me to be left alone again. Not getting any younger. I know I can be happy just being their friends but when does it end?!!! I need Love!
Obviously I am desperate and I also would much prefer being friend zoned than have no female friends. However, there comes a point when a man has to do what he has to do. Eventually I know I'm going to confess my feelings and make a move and eventually my anxiety tells me that it won't end well for me; they will never speak to me again. The whole thing has been a surreal c*** tease and I am trying to cope with the anxiety. My friends are just calling me a player and laughing about how I suddenly have female friends. So they aren't much help.
The usual thoughts on this though is to be cool, calm and collected and let them express their desire (if there is any). Any help would be much appreciated because I'm tired of these women randomly entering and leaving my life like some mystical ray of sunshine, only for me to be left alone again. Not getting any younger. I know I can be happy just being their friends but when does it end?!!! I need Love!