Omnione
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Well, I'm 5'3" and for a guy, particularly in western society, that's a massive hurdle (excuse the pun)... think tall, dark, handsome.. Exactly.
I could choose to let this become something impossible to get over (yep, another pun) or, as others say, work with what I've got.
I choose the latter.
As people have said before, stick to the positives, look after yourself, educate yourself, show your positives. Easily said I know, especially if you're naturally shy (like moi).
I've been out with relatively tall girls (think 5'11 in heels), and girls of the same height or close. Ironically it's the shorter girls who seem more averse to my vertical prowess.
Getting back to the main point though. I agree society is selling everyone the ideal as though it's the norm. This is unhealthy and is creating a situation where everyone is looking for perfection, it doesn't exist! The result is a lot of single people. Sad stuff.
I could choose to let this become something impossible to get over (yep, another pun) or, as others say, work with what I've got.
I choose the latter.
As people have said before, stick to the positives, look after yourself, educate yourself, show your positives. Easily said I know, especially if you're naturally shy (like moi).
I've been out with relatively tall girls (think 5'11 in heels), and girls of the same height or close. Ironically it's the shorter girls who seem more averse to my vertical prowess.
Getting back to the main point though. I agree society is selling everyone the ideal as though it's the norm. This is unhealthy and is creating a situation where everyone is looking for perfection, it doesn't exist! The result is a lot of single people. Sad stuff.