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A Story of Heartbreak and Slowly Moving On
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well...you can't make a girl wait forever.

I'm living through one of the biggest regrets in my life.
I'm not sure what your idea of a perfect relationship is.
I had my idea of what that is. I wanted things to be a certain way.
It didn't happened like what i planed.
She freaken died.
On a good day , i'll feel like a wack job....of the what if?
If I should have done this or done that ?.

Infidelity, can be hard to work through. It takes a lot fo work from both parties.
Acceptence is a son of a bitch...and forgivness is not a requirement.
Forgivness is actually in reverse. I forgive so i don't have to carry all that shit
inside of me....it's dosen't matter if I stay or walk away.

will.... you can look at it from another piont of view.
If I'm such a loving, understanding, nice guy as i claim to be.
Talk is cheap...it takes a lot of work to forgive someone.
especailly if that someone that you love betray you.lol
If you really , really love someone as much as you said/claim you do.
Unconditional love is a son of a bitch !!!

Anger is an emotion...don't deny it.
Find a healhty outlet or release.

well...death is a son of a bitch.
wheather its a death of a realtionship, hopes, dreams,or idea, it's still that same.
You lost something that was important to you, wheather its was by choice or not.

If you wish to continue your life without her, it is best to break off all contacts.
it takes time....walk six miles into the woods, you gatta walk six miles out.
With every step you take away from her, it'll becomes less painful..I suppost.

However, life sends it's lessons. You can't run ans you can't hide.
On the surfface it might look different or the circumstance might seem different.
Underneath is the same lessons.
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I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through too.

I don't think you're trying to hold a grudge. You're hurted and you're angry at her.
I think it's healthy that you're trying to talk about it, so it dosn't eat you up inside.

I hope you didn't miss understand me about forgiveness.

well, I know all the women or gf I've been with weren't virgins.
I do have an idea what a pure relationship is...though.
and I hope i don't experience anymore betrayals in this life time either.

No..I don't belive things are ever going to be the same.

I hope someday you fine someone that will hold and charris the same values and principles
that you have.

mmmm.. have you gone through the " I hate all women and they're all bitches and whores" stages yet ?
It usually will hit me after the heartache stage.
Don't trip...it won't last forever. You'll come out of it.
It last for around a month or so.

Be well
#5
Mate.. I do understand your pain as I am going through it as well.. bit different cicumstances but end of the day same thing.. It will take time and as lonesome crow said, if you have walked 6 miles in then you have to walk 6 out..
Last thing I will understand is women I guess.
Good luck and I hope you do find someone who understands you better.
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(09-02-2008, 11:13 PM)Lonesome Crow Wrote: well...you can't make a girl wait forever.

I'm living through one of the biggest regrets in my life.
I'm not sure what your idea of a perfect relationship is.
I had my idea of what that is. I wanted things to be a certain way.
It didn't happened like what i planed.
She freaken died.
On a good day , i'll feel like a wack job....of the what if?
If I should have done this or done that ?.

Infidelity, can be hard to work through. It takes a lot fo work from both parties.
Acceptence is a son of a bitch...and forgivness is not a requirement.
Forgivness is actually in reverse. I forgive so i don't have to carry all that shit
inside of me....it's dosen't matter if I stay or walk away.

will.... you can look at it from another piont of view.
If I'm such a loving, understanding, nice guy as i claim to be.
Talk is cheap...it takes a lot of work to forgive someone.
especailly if that someone that you love betray you.lol
If you really , really love someone as much as you said/claim you do.
Unconditional love is a son of a bitch !!!

Anger is an emotion...don't deny it.
Find a healhty outlet or release.

well...death is a son of a bitch.
wheather its a death of a realtionship, hopes, dreams,or idea, it's still that same.
You lost something that was important to you, wheather its was by choice or not.

If you wish to continue your life without her, it is best to break off all contacts.
it takes time....walk six miles into the woods, you gatta walk six miles out.
With every step you take away from her, it'll becomes less painful..I suppost.

However, life sends it's lessons. You can't run ans you can't hide.
On the surfface it might look different or the circumstance might seem different.
Underneath is the same lessons.

you are a asshole and u proved that u little mama boy
#7
Well seeing as the OP removed their original posts I am going to close this thread.

As for you Redtulips7 you are new here but that doesn't excuse your behaviour. You had no right to come in here and make that post insulting another member after you yourself made reports on "bad words" and "trolling". Enjoy your vacation.
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