ShyNLonely
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Hi all. New here.
I wanted to ask this for a long time, but I just didn't find the right place on internet to ask this.
I did try really hard to beat loneliness. I post adverts for meeting on few forums from my country, on few facebook pages in my country, even my best female friend post her opinion on me. I even start YouTube channel. I really pushed soo hard. But not really with too much success. It took me 4-5-6 years just to get 5-6 close friends. And I'm happy with them at this point. I live 40 miles away from city with 1 million people, and I live in a village with 300 people. So when I go in 1M city, after therapy I spend all my time with some of that 5 friends. Like my little personal group. Problem is: I'm feeling very lonely, sad and lost last 5-6 months, especially in last few days. My depression has gone way too far .. and I just can't do it anymore. I did really try everything, but it just doesn't work. Yesterday after therapy I was sitting in park with my best female friend. And I was like 5" away from her on the bench, but I was never really that far from someone in my entire life. 5" was more like million light years away. I just can't find someone of my kind, even friends. I hate being in place where I live. People around my are just primitive, evil and bad. Other bad thing: I even hate being in crowd. I really hate to go to therapy in 1M city. I even hate to take bus to hospital. The only thing which makes me happy is train. I have like 1 and half hour to that city and I just look outside and my mind is shut down. When I walk around everywhere, first thing that comes to my mind is: "Do you even belong here?". Or when I see people on terrace drinkin' coffee with friends and have fun, I'm like: "What the h**l is wrong with you when you can't have that?".
I think you got the point.
So, my question to you is:
Can loneliness be won?
I wanted to ask this for a long time, but I just didn't find the right place on internet to ask this.
I did try really hard to beat loneliness. I post adverts for meeting on few forums from my country, on few facebook pages in my country, even my best female friend post her opinion on me. I even start YouTube channel. I really pushed soo hard. But not really with too much success. It took me 4-5-6 years just to get 5-6 close friends. And I'm happy with them at this point. I live 40 miles away from city with 1 million people, and I live in a village with 300 people. So when I go in 1M city, after therapy I spend all my time with some of that 5 friends. Like my little personal group. Problem is: I'm feeling very lonely, sad and lost last 5-6 months, especially in last few days. My depression has gone way too far .. and I just can't do it anymore. I did really try everything, but it just doesn't work. Yesterday after therapy I was sitting in park with my best female friend. And I was like 5" away from her on the bench, but I was never really that far from someone in my entire life. 5" was more like million light years away. I just can't find someone of my kind, even friends. I hate being in place where I live. People around my are just primitive, evil and bad. Other bad thing: I even hate being in crowd. I really hate to go to therapy in 1M city. I even hate to take bus to hospital. The only thing which makes me happy is train. I have like 1 and half hour to that city and I just look outside and my mind is shut down. When I walk around everywhere, first thing that comes to my mind is: "Do you even belong here?". Or when I see people on terrace drinkin' coffee with friends and have fun, I'm like: "What the h**l is wrong with you when you can't have that?".
I think you got the point.
So, my question to you is:
Can loneliness be won?