Osiris
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This for me is my most embarrassing secret. Even reading it, my head screams at me "Ha! Loser".
This year I'm going to be 21, and it feels like now this is becoming quite scary for me! I mean I'm going to be a 21 year old who's never even kissed a girl? What woman is ever going to respect that? I don't even care about my "virginity" that doesn't bother me at all. Never having a connection with somebody does upset me though.
If you haven't read my thread on "I can't keep fighting" please do, it will explain a lot in my next paragraph.
I was going to post this in the "questions for the women" thread but I wanted more serious answers. Honestly if you'd been talking with a 21 year old guy, you both got along great etc. But then someone you trust told you they'd never kissed a girl...that would be a big, big turn off, no? For me, I feel like I've never even had an opportunity to relax with a girl I like and chat. My life's been non-stop stress. Even if I had, except for a one night stand I wouldn't of been able to offer them any kind of relationship because back then I was so anxious I thought I'd ruin their teenage years if they had gotten with me.
I mean there's 10 year olds who have more experience than me!... Anyway back to the question.
Women, would it scare you if you knew you were a man's first kiss/sexual experience etc.?
Also a second question if you don't mind answering? Men can answer this as well! If I met a girl I really liked, should I lie and pretend I do have experience?
Thank you for reading, any answers or advice would be great! Thanks again!
This year I'm going to be 21, and it feels like now this is becoming quite scary for me! I mean I'm going to be a 21 year old who's never even kissed a girl? What woman is ever going to respect that? I don't even care about my "virginity" that doesn't bother me at all. Never having a connection with somebody does upset me though.
If you haven't read my thread on "I can't keep fighting" please do, it will explain a lot in my next paragraph.
I was going to post this in the "questions for the women" thread but I wanted more serious answers. Honestly if you'd been talking with a 21 year old guy, you both got along great etc. But then someone you trust told you they'd never kissed a girl...that would be a big, big turn off, no? For me, I feel like I've never even had an opportunity to relax with a girl I like and chat. My life's been non-stop stress. Even if I had, except for a one night stand I wouldn't of been able to offer them any kind of relationship because back then I was so anxious I thought I'd ruin their teenage years if they had gotten with me.
I mean there's 10 year olds who have more experience than me!... Anyway back to the question.
Women, would it scare you if you knew you were a man's first kiss/sexual experience etc.?
Also a second question if you don't mind answering? Men can answer this as well! If I met a girl I really liked, should I lie and pretend I do have experience?
Thank you for reading, any answers or advice would be great! Thanks again!