Hello all. I have a questions i need answers to , but i don't know why almost every single time it starts good and in the end there is nothing close to a friendship. Especially with hot girls and ladies....
Let's say i try the "jerk" kind of behavior - usually get some attention , then in the end nothing.
Then it's the nice guy who im naturally , i get SOME attention and then again ignoring and not being bothered by people in facebook....
Yeah , i know about all the guys who chat dirty and send nudes to girls , im not one of those guys and i dont think it's the right thing to do.
One of my few close friends says "be friend with a girl first" , but how the hell i can be if i rarely got any answers? He's the extroverted and fun type of person who can get any girl to chat to him and open up to him....
So far i've been talking to lots of people and through the way i got a FEW people becoming my friend which is not bad but i want more people.. Even if i'm not the much extroverted and the guy with whole big group of friends. The problem is i can't open up for group of many people , because im introverted and usually shy and quiet when in group of more people im not close to.
Again , it's not that i dont want to talk to all of them , its just that i can't be everybody's friend and talk all the time useless things as many of the people do. I may be different in some aspects , but that doesn't mean i dont deserve attention or at least 3-4 folks we can both hang out with. Is friendships so hard to find these days? Yeah i do have 1 REAL friend and few collegues and im thankful , others are just conversation buddies nothing more. I dont know where to find the friends i want to be with. The people we can talk to seriously for what we both want and go towards it. Maybe meeting sites or social club? I can't seem to find social club or places and people who are there for the same interests and intensions as me. Really things got bit confusing but however im trying to be happy no matter what.
Let's say i try the "jerk" kind of behavior - usually get some attention , then in the end nothing.
Then it's the nice guy who im naturally , i get SOME attention and then again ignoring and not being bothered by people in facebook....
Yeah , i know about all the guys who chat dirty and send nudes to girls , im not one of those guys and i dont think it's the right thing to do.
One of my few close friends says "be friend with a girl first" , but how the hell i can be if i rarely got any answers? He's the extroverted and fun type of person who can get any girl to chat to him and open up to him....
So far i've been talking to lots of people and through the way i got a FEW people becoming my friend which is not bad but i want more people.. Even if i'm not the much extroverted and the guy with whole big group of friends. The problem is i can't open up for group of many people , because im introverted and usually shy and quiet when in group of more people im not close to.
Again , it's not that i dont want to talk to all of them , its just that i can't be everybody's friend and talk all the time useless things as many of the people do. I may be different in some aspects , but that doesn't mean i dont deserve attention or at least 3-4 folks we can both hang out with. Is friendships so hard to find these days? Yeah i do have 1 REAL friend and few collegues and im thankful , others are just conversation buddies nothing more. I dont know where to find the friends i want to be with. The people we can talk to seriously for what we both want and go towards it. Maybe meeting sites or social club? I can't seem to find social club or places and people who are there for the same interests and intensions as me. Really things got bit confusing but however im trying to be happy no matter what.
