M_also_lonely
Well-known member
I am not lonely and depressed anymore. Its been a long time now that I haven't felt like that.
But this is not the end, I have some different issues and concerns now, but they are not worse. If I could deal with loneliness and depression, I don't think that these will be impossible to deal with.
I just realized while talking to someone that my loneliness is gone. I read some of my threads that I wrote when I came here, and they are horrible.
I just laugh at those now. I was in a desperate need of a female partner, and rejection from women had made my life miserable.
At the beginning of the year, I made a resolution, to fight it. It was a huge struggle, but the idea of never giving up ultimately worked.
And now, I am free from those. I feel better, it surely is a good feeling. I am spending more time doing the things I like, and I am learning new things everyday.
This feeling of positivity gives me immense strength and and a sense of well being.
I eat well, I sleep well, I meditate and exercise daily, lost a lot of weight. I read and write everyday. I am doing different projects, taking courses, setting and achieving different goals. Its so much fun. I am able to talk to people.
Being alone is a kind of solitude for me now.
The other side is good, and everyone deserves to be on that side. But I have to say, its not that easy, you will have to struggle to get to the other side. But its possible, if you want to do it. The reason why we don't give our best fight to loneliness and depression is that those two things give us a subtle comfort. But there is no such feeling as the feeling of not being lonely anymore. It makes you stronger, it makes you want to dance. It gives you freedom.
So come to the other side, it maybe a challenging path, but you have everything you need to fight that. So go for it, give your best fight and you will make it.
But this is not the end, I have some different issues and concerns now, but they are not worse. If I could deal with loneliness and depression, I don't think that these will be impossible to deal with.
I just realized while talking to someone that my loneliness is gone. I read some of my threads that I wrote when I came here, and they are horrible.
I just laugh at those now. I was in a desperate need of a female partner, and rejection from women had made my life miserable.
At the beginning of the year, I made a resolution, to fight it. It was a huge struggle, but the idea of never giving up ultimately worked.
And now, I am free from those. I feel better, it surely is a good feeling. I am spending more time doing the things I like, and I am learning new things everyday.
This feeling of positivity gives me immense strength and and a sense of well being.
I eat well, I sleep well, I meditate and exercise daily, lost a lot of weight. I read and write everyday. I am doing different projects, taking courses, setting and achieving different goals. Its so much fun. I am able to talk to people.
Being alone is a kind of solitude for me now.
The other side is good, and everyone deserves to be on that side. But I have to say, its not that easy, you will have to struggle to get to the other side. But its possible, if you want to do it. The reason why we don't give our best fight to loneliness and depression is that those two things give us a subtle comfort. But there is no such feeling as the feeling of not being lonely anymore. It makes you stronger, it makes you want to dance. It gives you freedom.
So come to the other side, it maybe a challenging path, but you have everything you need to fight that. So go for it, give your best fight and you will make it.