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Paraiyar
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So earlier today I was about to go into a diary when I caught a glimpse of this girl I haven't seen in years. She always was pretty but I thought she seemed even more attractive now. She didn't see me and by the time I'd processed things she'd walked off. I got what I needed and drove home.
Now one of my oldest friends is also friends with her and this friend and I have been talking on FB chat a bit lately so I thought I'd tell her that I'd seen the other girl. This conversation would not go the way I thought it would:
Me: I saw Lydia just before, she didn't see me lol
Friend: I saw Lydia yesterday...she saw me too...lol
Me: Man she's got hot...
Friend: Thats kinda creepy Will, she's always been beautiful why you gotta go be like that?
Me: Probably just because I haven't seen her in years
Me: Sorry
Me: Didn't mean it like that...
She hasn't responded since. Am I missing something because I really don't think there was anything wrong or creepy about what I said? I feel like maybe I just don't really get women because I don't understand why it's creepy just to admit that you find someone physically attractive. Did my friend completely overreact or am I out of line in my thinking without even realizing it? I seriously don't get it...
This may seem like a petty thing to make a thread about but I do sometimes wonder if I just have a habit of being insensitive without meaning to but I can't work out if it really is a case of that or if some people are way oversensitive...
Now one of my oldest friends is also friends with her and this friend and I have been talking on FB chat a bit lately so I thought I'd tell her that I'd seen the other girl. This conversation would not go the way I thought it would:
Me: I saw Lydia just before, she didn't see me lol
Friend: I saw Lydia yesterday...she saw me too...lol
Me: Man she's got hot...
Friend: Thats kinda creepy Will, she's always been beautiful why you gotta go be like that?
Me: Probably just because I haven't seen her in years
Me: Sorry
Me: Didn't mean it like that...
She hasn't responded since. Am I missing something because I really don't think there was anything wrong or creepy about what I said? I feel like maybe I just don't really get women because I don't understand why it's creepy just to admit that you find someone physically attractive. Did my friend completely overreact or am I out of line in my thinking without even realizing it? I seriously don't get it...
This may seem like a petty thing to make a thread about but I do sometimes wonder if I just have a habit of being insensitive without meaning to but I can't work out if it really is a case of that or if some people are way oversensitive...